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James Case

is it wild for my gf to want me to hang with her hookup buddy?

So, here’s the deal. My girlfriend and I have been together for a while, but a few months ago, she cheated on me with this guy from her friend group. We talked it out, and I decided to give her another chance. I thought things were getting better. But now she’s acting like everything’s cool and wants me to join her and this dude for video game nights. She keeps saying it’s not a big deal and that we should all just be friends. I’m trying to move past what happened, but honestly, this feels super weird and uncomfortable for me. Am I being unreasonable for not wanting to hang out with the guy she cheated with? Has anyone else been in a situation like this? I could really use some advice on how to handle this, because I feel stuck and don’t know what to do next. #relationshipadvice #trustissues #awkwardsituations #needhelp #RomanticRelationships

is it wild for my gf to want me to hang with her hookup buddy?
Jessica Gonzalez

how do i move forward after my husband and bff betrayed me?

Last year, my world turned upside down. My husband and my best friend—two people I trusted most—hooked up behind my back. I found out by accident, and since then, nothing feels the same. I keep replaying everything in my head. I feel lost, angry, and so hurt. I thought we had a strong marriage. My best friend was like a sister to me. Now, I don’t know who to talk to or how to trust anyone again. Has anyone else gone through something like this? How did you start to heal? I want to move on, but I’m stuck. Any advice or support would mean a lot right now. relationshipadvice #healing #trustissues #betrayal #supportneeded #relationshipadvice #healing #trustissues #betrayal #supportneeded #RomanticRelationships

how do i move forward after my husband and bff betrayed me?
John Silva

did i just ruin my relationship forever by accusing her of cheating?

So, I messed up big time. I accused my girlfriend of cheating on me, and now I feel like the worst person ever. There wasn’t any real proof, just a bunch of dumb assumptions and my own insecurities. She was super hurt and now things are super awkward between us. She says she still loves me, but I can tell she’s keeping her distance. I’ve apologized a bunch, but I don’t know if that’s enough. I’m scared I broke her trust for good. I really care about her and don’t want to lose what we have. Has anyone been in a situation like this? How do you even start to fix things after accusing someone you love of something so serious? Any advice would help right now. relationshipadvice #trustissues #apology #helpneeded #relationshipadvice #trustissues #apology #helpneeded #RomanticRelationships

did i just ruin my relationship forever by accusing her of cheating?
Martin Cross

is it crossing the line to question my wife’s late-night texts?

Lately, my wife has been glued to her phone, especially at night. She laughs at messages and quickly hides her screen when I walk by. We used to share everything, but now she seems distant. I’m not sure if I’m just being paranoid or if there’s something going on. I want to ask her about it, but I’m worried I’ll come off as insecure or controlling. I love her and trust has always been important to us. Still, I can’t shake this weird feeling in my gut. Has anyone else dealt with this? How do you bring up your concerns without starting a huge fight? Any advice would help. I just want to know if I’m overthinking or if I should trust my instincts. #relationshipadvice #trustissues #marriage #communication #RomanticRelationships

is it crossing the line to question my wife’s late-night texts?
Kenneth Scott

did my girlfriend fall for a filter? is our love based on a lie?

Hey everyone, I’m in a weird spot and could use some advice. My girlfriend and I have been together for two years, and we’re talking about getting engaged soon. But lately, she’s been saying she feels like I “catfished” her because I looked different when we first met online. Back then, I used some filters and good lighting for my pics. I didn’t think it was a big deal, but now she keeps bringing it up. She says she feels misled, even though I never tried to hide who I am in person. I love her and don’t want this to ruin what we have. Has anyone else dealt with something like this? How do I reassure her that my feelings are real and that I’m not trying to be someone I’m not? #relationshipadvice #trustissues #datingproblems #engagement #selfimage #RomanticRelationships

did my girlfriend fall for a filter? is our love based on a lie?
Margaret Adams

did my boyfriend just betray me or am i overreacting big time?

So, I’m 21 and my boyfriend is 23. We’ve been together for almost a year and things have been pretty great. But recently, I shared something super personal with him—something I really didn’t want anyone else to know. I trusted him completely. Then, out of nowhere, his sister texts me about it. Turns out, he told his entire family my secret. I feel so exposed and embarrassed. He says he didn’t think it was a big deal, but it was huge to me. Now I don’t even want to see his family, and I’m not sure how to talk to him about this without making things worse. Has anyone else been through something like this? How do I move forward? Should I forgive him or is this a major red flag? relationshipadvice #trustissues #needhelp #boyfrienddrama #relationshipadvice #trustissues #needhelp #boyfrienddrama #RomanticRelationships

did my boyfriend just betray me or am i overreacting big time?
Thomas Jones

did my fiance just drop a bombshell that wrecked our trust?

So, I’m 26 and my fiancée is 25. We’ve been together for a few years, and I really thought we were solid. But last night, she told me something in bed that totally threw me off. I won’t get into the details, but it was big. Now I feel like the trust we built just took a major hit. I can’t stop replaying her words in my head. I want to move forward, but I’m stuck. I love her, but I’m hurt and confused. How do you rebuild trust after something like this? Has anyone else gone through something similar? I could really use some advice on how to deal with these feelings and figure out what’s next. relationshipadvice #trustissues #coupleproblems #needhelp #relationshipadvice #trustissues #coupleproblems #needhelp #RomanticRelationships

did my fiance just drop a bombshell that wrecked our trust?
howardlarry

how do i move forward after my girlfriend cheated and got hurt?

I’m really lost right now and could use some advice. My girlfriend and I have been together for a couple years. Recently, I found out she was planning to cheat on me. But things got way worse—she was assaulted during the whole thing. I’m torn between feeling betrayed and wanting to support her. I care about her a lot, but I can’t ignore what happened. At the same time, I know she’s dealing with a lot of pain and trauma. I don’t know if I should stay and help her heal, or if it’s better for both of us to take a break. Has anyone else been through something like this? How do you even start to process all these emotions? Any advice or thoughts would mean a lot right now. relationshipadvice #trustissues #healing #support #confused #relationshipadvice #trustissues #healing #support #confused #RomanticRelationships

how do i move forward after my girlfriend cheated and got hurt?
Tanya Martinez

is it normal for your boyfriend to ignore you when you’re hurt?

So last weekend, my boyfriend and I were cooking together. I accidentally touched a hot pan and burned my hand pretty badly. I was in a lot of pain and honestly expected him to help me out or at least show some concern. Instead, he just shrugged it off and kept doing his thing. I ended up running my hand under cold water alone while he barely looked up. Now my hand is healing, but I can’t stop thinking about how he acted. I feel like I would’ve dropped everything to help him if the roles were reversed. It makes me wonder if he really cares about me or if I’m just overreacting. Has anyone else dealt with something like this? How do you move past it when someone you care about doesn’t show up for you? relationshipadvice #datingstruggles #trustissues #emotionalhealth #relationshipadvice #datingstruggles #trustissues #emotionalhealth #RomanticRelationships

is it normal for your boyfriend to ignore you when you’re hurt?