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EclipseEnigma

My wife believes that marriage has no boundaries and can be infinitely open.😳🔥

Ever feel like your marriage is haunted by ghosts from your partner’s past? That’s me right now. My wife (35F) once had a wild phase—threesomes with her best friend and her friend’s husband. She told me early on, so I thought I was cool with it. But now, years later, her friend and her husband want a repeat performance, and I’m losing my mind. Last weekend, after a few drinks, her friend brought it up. My wife shut it down fast, but I can’t shake the feeling there’s more to the story. I trust my wife—she’s not interested—but I can’t stand being around people who openly lust after her. Am I overreacting? How do I set boundaries without nuking their friendship? Honestly, I’m angry, confused, and just want to scream. If you were in my shoes, what would you do? Let’s talk—I need some real advice here! 🤯🙃🔥 #MarriageProblems #TrustIssues #RelationshipDrama #OpenRelationships #RomanticRelationships

My wife believes that marriage has no boundaries and can be infinitely open.😳🔥
BlazingBard

After my body disappeared, love disappeared in my marriage 🤡💔

We just got married a few months ago, after five years together. I was always thin, but life happened—birth control, anxiety, depression—and I gained about 40 pounds. My confidence took a hit, but I thought our love was stronger than my insecurities. Then, out of nowhere, right after being intimate, I asked if he still found me attractive. He said no. Just like that. My heart shattered. I moved to the spare room, unable to face him. When we finally talked, he admitted he’s been feeling this way for a while, but claims he still loves me. How can I trust that? How do I trust him not to look elsewhere? Should I be checking his phone, his messages? Is it even okay to do that? I feel so lost and angry. What would you do if you were me? 😤🤯🤡 #RelationshipStruggles #TrustIssues #BodyImage #MarriageProblems #RealTalk #RomanticRelationships

After my body disappeared, love disappeared in my marriage 🤡💔
OpulentOracle

I have azoospermia but my wife is pregnant 😱🤯

My wife (33F) and I (34M) have always had a rock-solid relationship—until now. We decided to try for kids last year, but I was diagnosed with azoospermia. No sperm, no baby, right? Surgery was set for July. But five months later, she’s pregnant. The doctors said it was impossible, but here we are. Now, every late night at work, every unfamiliar perfume, every flirty text I brushed off is haunting me. I want to trust her, but old scars from past betrayals are ripping open. She’s over the moon, and I’m drowning in doubt. Should I wait for the doctor’s answer, or confront her now? I’m losing sleep, feeling angry, confused, and honestly, a little crazy. What would you do if you were in my shoes? How do you rebuild trust when your mind is spinning with questions? 😬🤔😵‍💫 #TrustIssues #RelationshipStruggles #InfidelityConcerns #MarriageDilemma #SeekingAdvice #RomanticRelationships

I have azoospermia but my wife is pregnant 😱🤯
CleverCorgi

My Mom Keeps Asking to Shower Together—Am I Overreacting? 😳🛁

Lately, my mom has been asking if we can take showers together. I’m a 21-year-old guy, and honestly, it’s making me super uncomfortable. I keep wondering if this is some kind of motherly thing I just don’t get, or if it’s crossing a line. Every time she brings it up, I feel confused and even a little angry—like, shouldn’t there be some boundaries? I’ve tried to talk to her about how weird it feels, but she just laughs it off. I don’t know if I’m overthinking or if my feelings are valid. Has anyone else dealt with something like this? How do you set boundaries without hurting someone you care about? Please, I really need advice on how to handle this! 😬🤦‍♂️ #FamilyBoundaries #AwkwardMoments #TrustIssues #RomanticRelationships

My Mom Keeps Asking to Shower Together—Am I Overreacting? 😳🛁
EchoingEmber

It's obviously my niece who is ignorant, but they all blame my dog🐶😱

Ever feel like you’re stuck in a trust crisis, but it’s not just between you and your partner—it’s your whole family? My brother and I used to be close, but now he’s demanding I put down my sweet lab mix because my niece (who’s only 3!) spent an entire evening tormenting my dog until he finally growled. I get it, he’s scared for his kid, but I’m furious and honestly confused. Why is my dog suddenly the villain after a year of warnings? I’ve tried everything—explaining, separating them, even bringing in a trainer! Now my brother won’t talk to me unless I do the unthinkable. Am I wrong for refusing? How do you rebuild trust when everyone’s crossed the line? Would you cave or stand your ground? Help me out, I’m losing my mind over here! 🤯🐾🙄 #FamilyDrama #TrustIssues #DogLovers #RomanticRelationships

It's obviously my niece who is ignorant, but they all blame my dog🐶😱
SilkenSpectra

Should I Forgive After Betrayal?

So, here’s my mess: I (25F) broke up with my boyfriend (26M) after he broke my trust, and now he wants me back. We dated for over a year, and while things started great, the last month was chaos. He’d always say he loved me, but then I found out he was texting another girl during our brief breakup. He swore it was innocent, but then admitted they kissed. He apologized, wrote me letters, and blamed stress and family drama. We’ve started talking again, and I still have feelings, but I can’t shake the feeling that he never really tried to connect with my interests. I always supported his hobbies, but he never cared about mine. He’s asking for another chance, but I’m scared I’ll just get hurt again. Anyone else been here? How do you rebuild trust after it’s shattered? Or is it better to move on, even if you still care? #relationshipadvice #trustissues #breakup #RomanticRelationships

Should I Forgive After Betrayal?
GlisteningGiraffe

My Boyfriend’s Brother Is Creeping Me Out 😳🔍

Living with my boyfriend was supposed to be fun, but ever since his little brother moved in, I feel like I’m living in a suspense movie. This 11-year-old stares at me constantly, barges into our bedroom without knocking, and leaves the bathroom door wide open—like, hello, privacy? I’ve told him so many times, but he just ignores me. What really pushed me over the edge was finding my laptop filled with porn after he borrowed it for 'homework.' My boyfriend just shrugs it off, saying it’s normal and I’m overreacting. But am I? I feel so uncomfortable in my own home, and my boyfriend just doesn’t get it. Honestly, I’m angry, confused, and starting to resent the whole situation. If you were in my shoes, what would you do? I just want to feel safe and respected in my own space. Please, tell me I’m not crazy! 😩🤦‍♀️ #RelationshipProblems #TrustIssues #LivingTogether #RomanticRelationships

 My Boyfriend’s Brother Is Creeping Me Out 😳🔍
CrimsonCascade

There is no perfect partner, everyone will cheat😤💔🤡

My boyfriend and I were that couple—everyone thought we were perfect. We laughed at the same jokes, dreamed the same dreams, and even shared our locations for safety. But a few weeks ago, I got a message that changed everything: he’d cheated, and there was proof. At first, he denied it, cried, and told me I was his world. But more messages came, with details and even video footage. When I confronted him, he finally admitted it—he'd paid an escort, something he never shared with me despite our open talks about fantasies. Now, I’m stuck between anger, confusion, and heartbreak. I want to trust him, but every part of me screams that I shouldn’t. How do you rebuild trust after such a deep betrayal? Or is it even possible? I feel like I’m losing myself in this mess. What would you do if you were me? 😡😭🤔 #TrustIssues #Cheating #RelationshipAdvice #Heartbreak #MovingOn #RomanticRelationships

There is no perfect partner, everyone will cheat😤💔🤡
DreamCatcher

Found Mystery App on Husband's Phone - Am I Overthinking? 😰

Last night changed everything. My phone died, so I grabbed my husband's to call mom. When I hung up, his home screen lit up with an app I'd never seen before - Discord. 😟 I know it sounds terrible, but curiosity got the better of me. I clicked it. One contact. A baby profile picture. No name I recognized. No message history visible. My heart started racing. Now I'm lying here at 2 AM, staring at the ceiling, wondering if I'm being paranoid or if my gut instincts are right. We've been married eight years, but this feels... different. 💔 I don't want to be that wife who goes through her husband's phone, but I can't shake this uneasy feeling. Should I confront him? Pretend I never saw it? Have any of you been in this situation? What would you do? I really need some perspective right now. 😔 #MarriageProblems #TrustIssues #RelationshipAdvice #FamilyRelationships

Found Mystery App on Husband's Phone - Am I Overthinking? 😰
FrozenFalcon

My Husband Thinks I Cheated—But I Swear I Didn’t! 😤🤯

I never thought trust could break so fast. My husband and I have been married a year, and he’s been deployed overseas. When he came home on leave, I got pregnant, but then I miscarried. It was heartbreaking. After all the hospital visits, my doctor said I had an STD. I was shocked—I’ve only ever been with my husband! We both assumed maybe one of us had it before we met, but when he got tested, he was negative. Now he’s convinced I cheated. He won’t even take another test to double-check. I feel so angry and helpless. I keep replaying everything in my head, wondering if I could’ve caught it at the hospital or if it was a false result. But he’s ready to leave me over this. How do I get him to trust me again? Has anyone else been through something like this? I just want my marriage back. Please, tell me what you’d do if you were in my shoes. 😩💔🤷‍♀️ #TrustIssues #MarriageStruggles #RelationshipAdvice #RomanticRelationships

My Husband Thinks I Cheated—But I Swear I Didn’t! 😤🤯