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ChasingChimera

He Wants a DNA Test for Our Future Kids?! 🚩🤯

Last night, my boyfriend and I were relaxing in our Chicago apartment, dreaming about our future—kids, marriage, the whole nine yards. Out of nowhere, he says, "I'm definitely getting a DNA test when our baby is born." At first, I laughed it off, thinking he was joking. But nope, he was dead serious. I felt blindsided and honestly, hurt. Does he really think I’d cheat on him? I’ve never given him a reason to doubt me! I told him how much it stings that he’d even consider this, and he just shrugged, saying he wouldn’t even tell me if he did it. Am I overreacting, or is this a huge red flag? How do couples rebuild trust after something like this? I’m so confused and annoyed—please tell me I’m not alone in feeling this way! 😤🤦‍♀️🤷‍♀️ #TrustIssues #RelationshipTalk #ModernLove #Communication #RomanticRelationships

He Wants a DNA Test for Our Future Kids?! 🚩🤯
SavvySizzle

My husband always does things he thinks are funny.🤡🥤

Last night, after a perfectly normal evening, I asked my husband for a glass of water. He handed it to me with this smug little grin, and something just felt off. I blurted out, "Did you put your brother in this?" He looked shocked—then admitted it! I was furious, but also just... confused. Why would he do that? He brushed it off as a joke, but it didn’t feel funny. It felt like a weird breach of trust. Now I can’t help but wonder: if he’d do this, what else might he do? Is it just a prank, or something deeper? Am I overreacting, or is this a real boundary issue? I need advice—how do you rebuild trust after something so bizarre? Please, tell me I’m not alone in feeling this way. 😳🤔🥴 #trustissues #relationshipdrama #boundaries #marriage #communication #RomanticRelationships

My husband always does things he thinks are funny.🤡🥤
VelcroViper

My husband's strange behavior at night 😳🙄

I've been married for five years, and our sex life is usually great—unless we're fighting. But lately, I've been waking up to my husband touching me in my sleep. At first, I thought I was dreaming, but it kept happening. Every time I stirred, he'd freeze, pretending nothing was going on. Last weekend, I pretended to stay asleep just to see how far he'd go. When I finally confronted him, he brushed it off, saying he was just horny and it wouldn't happen again. But now, I can't shake the feeling of betrayal. I started sleeping in clothes, and I can't trust him like before. He acts like it's no big deal, but to me, it feels like a huge violation. Am I being too sensitive? How do I rebuild trust when he won't even admit what he's done? Please, tell me I'm not crazy for feeling this way. 😩🤔😤 #MarriageProblems #TrustIssues #RelationshipAdvice #Betrayal #Communication #RomanticRelationships

My husband's strange behavior at night 😳🙄
MirthfulMystic

Did I sleepwalk and bring the baby back to the bed?😱🤦‍♂️

Last night was a nightmare. My wife (27F) and I (29M) always put our 9-month-old to bed together, but somehow, chaos broke loose. We both dozed off, and when I woke up, I put the baby in her crib—or so I thought. Hours later, my wife found our baby on the edge of the bed, nearly falling! She swears she didn’t take her out of the crib, and I KNOW I put her there. Now we’re accusing each other, double-checking everything, and even wondering if one of us is sleepwalking. This isn’t the first time we’ve doubted each other, and honestly, I’m so frustrated and confused. I just want to trust her, but these moments make me question everything. How do couples rebuild trust after moments like this? I feel like I’m losing my mind. Please, tell me I’m not alone in this madness! 😩😵‍♂️🤯 #TrustIssues #RelationshipDrama #ParentingStruggles #Communication #Marriage #RomanticRelationships

Did I sleepwalk and bring the baby back to the bed?😱🤦‍♂️
StellarSymphony

My Husband Wants an Open Marriage—2 Weeks In?! 😳🤯

I (25F) thought marrying my best friend (26M) would be the happiest chapter of my life. But less than a week after our wedding in Chicago, he asked if we could open our marriage—threesomes, couple swaps, the whole thing. I was floored. He knows I’ve been cheated on before and how much it hurt me. Now, I feel like I’m not enough for him, and all my old insecurities are back. He’s secretive with his phone, still talks to exes, and brushes off my concerns like I’m overreacting. I’m angry, confused, and honestly, I feel betrayed. Is there any way to rebuild trust after this? Or am I just fooling myself? Please, tell me what you’d do if you were in my shoes! 😤💔🤦‍♀️ #MarriageProblems #TrustIssues #RelationshipAdvice #OpenMarriage #Insecurity #RomanticRelationships

My Husband Wants an Open Marriage—2 Weeks In?! 😳🤯
LiquidLynx

My wife and I had a fight over trivial matters in life🤦‍♂️🤯

Lately, my life feels like a bad soap opera. After a huge fight with my wife (we both lost it, I broke some glasses, then vanished to my office for three days), I called my parents for support. But now, things are spiraling. My parents—who never liked my wife—accused her of deleting five years of our kids’ photos from a family WhatsApp group. They showed me their phones: everything gone. But when I checked mine, all the photos and messages were still there! My wife swears she didn’t do it, and honestly, I believe her. But my parents are suddenly super sweet to me, which feels off. Are they trying to turn me against her? I’m angry, confused, and honestly, exhausted. Why is it so hard for everyone to just trust each other? Have you ever been caught in the middle like this? What would you do if you were me? 😤🤔🥴 #FamilyDrama #TrustIssues #MarriageStruggles #InLawProblems #RomanticRelationships

My wife and I had a fight over trivial matters in life🤦‍♂️🤯
CascadeCadenza

My husband has become weird and neurotic after marriage!🌱💔😳

I never thought I’d find myself here, questioning everything about my marriage. For months, my beloved houseplants—gifts from my late mom and sister—were dying off mysteriously. I chalked it up to bad luck, until I found bleach in the soil. My husband, the only other adult at home, finally admitted to poisoning them. His reason? I "deserved to be knocked down a peg." I was furious, heartbroken, and honestly, scared. Then I discovered he’d been hiding my daughter’s toys just to make her cry and blame her. Now, I’m left wondering: how do you rebuild trust after such betrayal? Is counseling even worth it when the other person shows no remorse? Or is it time to walk away for good? I feel lost, angry, and betrayed. If you’ve ever doubted your partner or crossed a line to find the truth, how did you handle it? Please, tell me I’m not alone in this madness! 🤯🥲🙃 #TrustIssues #MarriageProblems #EmotionalAbuse #FamilyDrama #SeekingAdvice #RomanticRelationships

My husband has become weird and neurotic after marriage!🌱💔😳
CelestiaCinnamon

I deeply feel that marriage is the grave of love 🤦‍♂️💔🤷‍♂️

I never thought love could feel this lonely. My wife and I have been together for five years, married for four. She came from a rough marriage, and I stepped up to help raise her child. I thought we were building something real. But now, it feels like every day is a test I’m destined to fail. She asked me to cut off my closest friends—people I’ve known since I was a teenager—just to make her happy. I did it, thinking it would help. But it was never enough. She started checking my phone, locking herself away, and accusing me of cheating. No matter how much I give up, she wants more. I’ve switched jobs, moved cities, and even left the military, but her happiness is always just out of reach. Now, I’m deployed again, and she barely speaks to me. I’m angry, confused, and honestly, just exhausted. Am I crazy for wanting trust and respect? Or is this just what marriage is supposed to be? Please, tell me I’m not alone in this mess. 😩🤔🙃 #MarriageStruggles #TrustIssues #RelationshipAdvice #FeelingAlone #RomanticRelationships

I deeply feel that marriage is the grave of love 🤦‍♂️💔🤷‍♂️
SteelSerenade

My wife suspected me of cheating on her. It's unfair?! 😳🤦‍♂️

We’ve been married just over two years after a whirlwind romance, and I swear I’ve never been more attracted to anyone in my life. But after running into an old flame, my wife’s doubts about my feelings exploded. She’s convinced I’m just enjoying her lifestyle, not her, and even her therapist seemed to agree! I felt like I was on trial for a crime I didn’t commit. Now, she’s questioning everything—my intentions, our age gap, even why I wanted to marry her so quickly. I’m left feeling angry, confused, and honestly, a little humiliated. I love her deeply, but how do you rebuild trust when you never meant to break it? If you’ve ever felt blindsided by suspicion in your relationship, how did you get through it? I’m all ears, because right now, I feel like I’m losing my best friend. 😩💔 What would you do if you were in my shoes? #TrustIssues #MarriageStruggles #RelationshipAdvice #EmotionalRollercoaster #RomanticRelationships

My wife suspected me of cheating on her. It's unfair?! 😳🤦‍♂️
EchoLark

A Night of Betrayal in Las Vegas 😳🤡

Last weekend, my husband and I (34M/28F) escaped to Miami for a spontaneous getaway. After a day of sun and cocktails, I crashed early and urged him to enjoy the night. But at 2AM, I woke up alone. His phone location was off, he ignored my calls, and our bank showed thousands spent at a strip club. He finally stumbled in at 3:30AM, wasted, and lied about where he’d been—even though receipts proved otherwise. He swears nothing happened, but how can I believe him after this? My trust is shattered, and I can’t stop replaying every detail. Why would he do this on our trip, with me just a few floors away? I feel betrayed, angry, and lost. If you’ve been through this, how did you rebuild trust—or did you? Please, I need your advice. 😤💔🤯 #TrustIssues #RelationshipDrama #MarriageStruggles #Infidelity #AdviceNeeded #RomanticRelationships

A Night of Betrayal in Las Vegas 😳🤡