finding a relaxing getaway with my not-so-mobile mom
Last weekend, I spent hours scrolling through travel sites, trying to plan a quick trip for my mom and me. Here’s the catch: my mom can’t handle long car rides, gets tired easily, and really can’t deal with the heat. She’s happiest with a comfy seat, some good live music, and a plate of delicious food in front of her. She loves nature, but if I drag her to a national park, I’ll end up hiking alone while she waits in the car—been there, done that, not fun for either of us!
We’ve already done the usual Bay Area stuff—Napa, Sacramento, San Francisco—so those are out. I’m also heading to Chicago soon, so that’s off the list. Cruises are a no-go (she gets seasick just watching the ocean on TV), but I’m open to a nice resort if it means she can relax and I don’t have to worry about her getting too tired.
Here’s where I’m stuck: every place I find is either too much walking, too hot, or just not interesting enough for both of us. I want her to have a good time, but I also don’t want to spend the whole weekend babysitting her while missing out on things I’d enjoy. Has anyone else figured out the sweet spot for a trip like this? I feel like there must be some hidden gem out there that’s not just another wine country tour or a stuffy hotel lounge. I’m starting to think these trips are harder to plan than they should be, especially when you want both people to actually have fun!
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