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BlissfulBlaze

My husband suddenly started dating single girls 😬🤦‍♀️

Ever since we moved to Chicago and started working from home, my husband and I have been together almost 24/7. I always thought I was cool with him having his own life, but lately, his nights out with his single, girl-chasing friends have me on edge. Last weekend, while he was out with his friend who brags about dating five girls at once, our dog slipped away during my walk. I called my husband for help—no answer. When he finally called back, I could hear girls laughing in the background. He said it was just his friend chatting, but the next day, he casually mentioned talking to three girls at the bar about dating dealbreakers. I want to trust him, but my mind spins with doubts and annoyance. Am I overreacting? How do I talk to him without sounding jealous or controlling? I feel stuck between wanting to be the "cool wife" and wanting to scream. Please, tell me—how would you handle this? 😤🙄😵‍💫 #TrustIssues #RelationshipAnxiety #MarriageStruggles #Insecurity #Communication #RomanticRelationships

My husband suddenly started dating single girls 😬🤦‍♀️
MysticNomad

Still Competing With His Ex After 7 Years?! 😩💔

Sometimes, even after seven years together, I feel like I’m still living in the shadow of his first love. She’s always there—liking his posts on LinkedIn, sending him emails, just hovering in the background. It’s like she’s waiting for her chance, and honestly, it makes me feel like I’ll never measure up. We’ve been through so much together—surgeries, losing my mom, building a life. But when I see her name pop up, I start doubting myself. I ask him if he still loves her, and I know it sounds insecure, but I can’t help it. I wish I could just not care, but sometimes it feels impossible. Does anyone else struggle with their partner’s past relationships? How do you stop comparing yourself and start feeling secure again? I’d love to hear your stories and advice. Let’s help each other out! 🫶 #relationshipstruggles #insecurity #movingon #FamilyRelationships

Still Competing With His Ex After 7 Years?! 😩💔
StellarSymphony

My Husband Wants an Open Marriage—2 Weeks In?! 😳🤯

I (25F) thought marrying my best friend (26M) would be the happiest chapter of my life. But less than a week after our wedding in Chicago, he asked if we could open our marriage—threesomes, couple swaps, the whole thing. I was floored. He knows I’ve been cheated on before and how much it hurt me. Now, I feel like I’m not enough for him, and all my old insecurities are back. He’s secretive with his phone, still talks to exes, and brushes off my concerns like I’m overreacting. I’m angry, confused, and honestly, I feel betrayed. Is there any way to rebuild trust after this? Or am I just fooling myself? Please, tell me what you’d do if you were in my shoes! 😤💔🤦‍♀️ #MarriageProblems #TrustIssues #RelationshipAdvice #OpenMarriage #Insecurity #RomanticRelationships

My Husband Wants an Open Marriage—2 Weeks In?! 😳🤯
FrostyPhantom

Do Tall Guys Really Prefer Short Girls? My Unexpected Dilemma 😅

You know, everyone keeps saying how cute the tall guy and short girl combo is, like it’s some kind of fairytale. But honestly, standing next to him, I feel like I shrink even more. I’ve had a crush on him forever, but I can’t help but wonder—do tall guys actually want someone my height, or is that just a thing people say? Sometimes I catch myself overthinking: maybe he’s got expectations I’ll never meet. Maybe he wants someone who can keep up with his long strides or reach the top shelf without a step stool. It’s funny, right? We all want to fit into that picture-perfect couple, but what if he’s not even looking at me that way? I wish I could just ask him, but for now, I’m stuck in this loop—hoping he notices me, even if I’m half his size. 😳 #relationshipdilemmas #heightdifference #crushconfessions #insecurity #datingthoughts #RomanticRelationships

Do Tall Guys Really Prefer Short Girls? My Unexpected Dilemma 😅
Lisa Atkinson

how do I deal with insecurity after a divorce & dating? 💔

I’ve been seeing an amazing guy for seven months now. He’s great, and I can honestly see a future with him. There’s just one catch—I can’t shake off this feeling of insecurity. I recently got out of a marriage, and he’s been divorced for about three years. I really like him, but I’m struggling to express how I feel. Every time I try to bring up the idea of us being something more, it feels like the timing is off. I don’t want to scare him away, especially when he hasn’t said anything about where he sees us going. And it’s not just about talking. My mind spirals. What if he doesn’t want the same things I do? What if I’m wasting my time? Some days, everything feels perfect, but then those doubts creep in. Anyone else deal with this kind of post-divorce insecurity while dating? How do you find the courage to be open without pushing someone away? #newrelationship #postdivorce #insecurity

how do I deal with insecurity after a divorce & dating? 💔
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