Sometimes, even after seven years together, I feel like I’m still living in the shadow of his first love. She’s always there—liking his posts on LinkedIn, sending him emails, just hovering in the background. It’s like she’s waiting for her chance, and honestly, it makes me feel like I’ll never measure up. We’ve been through so much together—surgeries, losing my mom, building a life. But when I see her name pop up, I start doubting myself. I ask him if he still loves her, and I know it sounds insecure, but I can’t help it. I wish I could just not care, but sometimes it feels impossible. Does anyone else struggle with their partner’s past relationships? How do you stop comparing yourself and start feeling secure again? I’d love to hear your stories and advice. Let’s help each other out! 🫶 #relationshipstruggles #insecurity #movingon #FamilyRelationships