Grandma’s unexpected reach - justified to ignore?​

After a decade of no contact with my family, Grandma suddenly reached out through my sister. My parents—especially my mom—were toxic narcissists who emotionally and physically abused me. I’ve worked hard to move on, but this feels like a setup. I suspect my dad’s been badmouthing me to relatives, and Grandma might side with him. Do I owe her an explanation after everything? Or is it fair to keep my distance and protect my peace? #FamilyDrama #ToxicParents #Boundaries #GrandmaReachingOut #SelfCare #RomanticRelationships