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davisdanielle

When You’re the Husband Who Cares More Than the Wife Does

My wife has struggled with her weight for most of her life. I’ve watched her try, fail, restart, give up. I’ve supported her through diets, therapy, ADHD meds, even offered to pay for anything she needs—Ozempic, a nutritionist, food prep, couples therapy. She refuses it all. She says she wants to change. She says the weight is hurting her. She has prediabetes, PCOS, irregular periods, bad blood sugar. But then she skips appointments, ignores doctor advice, eats like nothing matters. Even when I try to cook for her or help her plan, I find candy wrappers and fast food receipts. It’s been over a decade. I’m exhausted. I love her—but I’m tired of watching her destroy her health while saying she wants to fix it. I’m starting to feel like I’m the only one who cares anymore. And I hate that I’ve even thought about leaving. What do you do when love turns into helplessness? #ADHD #MarriageStruggles #ObesitySupport #MentalHealth #WeightLossJourney #Burnout #Ozempic #CaregiverFatigue

Debra Cole

Husband wants to divorce and "start over," says he "can't bond" with our daughter

I'm writing this with a heavy heart, hoping there's still a way to fix what feels broken beyond repair.My husband (29M) and I (30NB) have been married for five years. Last September, we welcomed our first child—a beautiful baby girl. Labor was complicated, and after things went downhill quickly, I needed an emergency C-section. My husband had to leave the room and wasn't there for her birth.Now, just months later, he's saying he wants a divorce. He says he "can't bond" with our daughter because he didn’t witness her birth, and claims he’s lost the dream of having a "small, close-knit family." Therapy was suggested by his dad, but he refused, insisting it's hopeless.I feel so lost. I know there’s no magic fix, but I can’t help hoping. Is there truly no way back from here?If you've been through anything similar, how did you handle it? Please share your thoughts in the comments. #MarriageStruggles #NewParenthood #FamilyHealing #BrokenDreams #ParentingJourney. #Parenting

Diana Rivera

why is my husband pushing me to abort and divorce him??

I’m pregnant with our second baby (we have a 15-month-old), and everything is falling apart. My husband and I had planned for this second child, but recently, everything changed. Two weeks ago, we had a huge fight, and now he’s avoiding me, staying in hotels, and even traveling to Vegas without his wedding ring. His mom is pressuring me to abort, and I feel like that’s influencing his attitude toward this baby. He’s been incredibly distant and cruel, and now he’s talking about a divorce and trying to get me to sign a post-nup. On top of all this, I’ve discovered he’s following random girls on Instagram. I’m lost, confused, and wondering if I’m making the right choices. I’ve already had two abortions before our marriage, but this time feels different—especially with the trust issues and possible infidelity. I’m praying, but I feel like it’s just getting worse. What do I do? How do I handle this? #MarriageStruggles #PregnancyStress #Infidelity

johnsonjonathan

Samantha Busch Gets Real About Marriage & Loss

Samantha Busch just opened up about the raw, tough side of marriage after miscarriage. She and NASCAR’s Kyle Busch faced years of heartbreak trying for baby #2—think IVF, failed surrogacy, and devastating losses. She admits they struggled big time, even needing marriage counseling to get through it. But after all the pain, they finally welcomed daughter Lennix via a carrier, and now help other couples with their Bundle of Joy Fund. Total rollercoaster, but so inspiring! #Relationships #MarriageStruggles #IVFJourney

SapphirePulse

My wife deletes chat history regularly because she doesn't want me to find out something.🤡🔥

I've never been the jealous type, but lately, my trust is running on fumes. My wife (30F) and I (31M) have been married for four years, and I rarely check her phone. But a year ago, I noticed she was texting a guy she claimed was her best friend's boyfriend. She said it was nothing, so I let it go. Fast forward to today, our son was playing with her phone, and I saw she’s still chatting with this guy—about music, movies, and all sorts of stuff. The weird part? The chat history starts this month, but their convo clearly goes way back. When I asked, she said she deletes chats for space, but old chats with others are still there. Now, I’m left feeling angry, confused, and honestly, a bit betrayed. I blocked the guy and deleted their chats, but now I’m just lost. How do I rebuild trust when I feel like I’m losing my mind? Would you feel the same, or am I just being paranoid? 😤🤯🤡 #TrustIssues #MarriageStruggles #RelationshipAdvice #Jealousy #Communication #RomanticRelationships

PrismaticPulse

Husband's Drunken Nights Left Me Alone and Worried! 😩🍻

Last night was supposed to be simple—I got home early from my friend's birthday, ready for our son's big party the next morning. My husband promised he'd just have a couple of beers with his buddies, and my dad was babysitting. But by 10:30pm, he still wasn't home. I called and texted, but nothing. My mind raced with worry and frustration. By 11pm, I couldn't take it anymore. I walked over to his friend's place and found him, drunk and laughing, completely forgetting his promise. I lost my cool and yelled at him, which I regret, but the fear and mistrust from his past drinking nights just overwhelmed me. Sometimes I feel so alone in this, always worrying and never knowing if I can trust him to keep his word. Have you ever felt this way? I really need someone to talk to who understands. 💔 #MarriageStruggles #TrustIssues #FamilyDrama #FamilyRelationships

GlitchGuru

Pregnant, Exhausted, and Still Doing It All—Is This Fair? 😤

Let me paint you a picture: I’m 28, pregnant with our second, and my hormones are running the show. My husband (31) works full-time, I work two days a week, and the rest of my time is spent chasing after our toddler. But when it comes to chores—cooking, cleaning our 3x2, walking HIS dog, laundry, daycare drop-offs—I’m doing 90%. NINETY. PERCENT. Last night, after a day of nausea and tears, I begged him to help more. His response? A shrug and a mumble about being tired. Tired? I’m growing a human! Is it too much to ask for a 50/50 split? Or am I just being hormonal? Please, tell me—how do you split chores fairly when one person is literally making another person? 😩 I need advice before I lose my mind! #MarriageStruggles #ChoreWars #PregnancyProblems #RelationshipAdvice #RomanticRelationships

SonicSunrise

My Husband Feels Like a Stranger—Is This Even Marriage? 😢

Lately, it feels like my husband and I are just two people living under the same roof, barely connecting. He comes home late, glued to his phone, and the only time we talk is about bills or what’s for dinner. With our first baby on the way, I imagined we’d be closer than ever, but instead, I feel more alone than I ever have. We used to laugh together, go for late-night ice cream runs, and he’d always surprise me with little things. Now, it’s like we’re just roommates, not partners. I see other couples holding hands at the park or posting cute photos, and I can’t help but wonder—what happened to us? I tried to open up to him, but he just shrugged it off, saying we’re not like everyone else. Am I just being emotional, or is this something deeper? Has anyone else felt their marriage drift into this weird, lonely routine? Please tell me I’m not alone in feeling this way. 💬 #MarriageStruggles #FeelingAlone #RelationshipRealTalk #FamilyRelationships

PrismPioneer

My Husband’s Job Hijacked Our Family Vacation! 😩📱

We spent months saving for a dream trip to Florida, hoping for sun, laughter, and memories. But the moment we landed, my husband was glued to his phone, answering work calls and typing away like his job was our fourth child—always demanding, never satisfied. With three kids, including a toddler in diapers, I felt like I was running the show alone. I left my own career behind for our family, but now I barely recognize the man I married. Every special moment—building sandcastles, watching sunsets, even bedtime cuddles—was interrupted by his job. Sometimes I feel invisible, just a background character in my own life. I’ve even thought about leaving, but the idea of doing this alone scares me. Has anyone else felt this lost in their marriage? How did you cope? I really need a friend right now. Please share your stories below. 💬😔 #MarriageStruggles #FeelingInvisible #WorkLifeBalance #FamilyRelationships

GlisteningGlider

My Husband Turned Me Into His Personal ATM—Now I’m Drowning in Debt 😡

We’ve been married five years, and somehow, I’m the one left with $20k in debt while my husband acts like he’s the victim. We agreed I’d use my credit cards for our shared expenses and he’d pay me back his half every month. Guess what? He never did. Now my credit score is in the gutter, and he still expects me to Venmo him my share the second we split a bill. I work two jobs and do most of the cleaning, but he shrugs off my frustration like it’s nothing. I’ve tried talking to him, but he just doesn’t get how much this debt is crushing me. How do I let go of this resentment when he doesn’t even care? Or am I just supposed to keep smiling while my bank account cries? 😤💸 What would you do if you were in my shoes? #FinancialConflict #MarriageStruggles #DebtProblems #RomanticRelationships

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