joshua44+Followwhy did my gf wake me up at 3am just to say she kissed someone?My girlfriend and I were together for 5 years. Things were rocky lately, sure, but I still loved her. One night—3am—she calls me crying, says she can’t sleep, and confesses she kissed another guy. I was literally asleep. She chose to go out with him, then chose to wake me up and drop that on me like a grenade. I haven’t talked to her since. It’s been almost a month. And yeah, I know I need to move on. But the way she did it? Not a conversation, no closure, just chaos and silence. I'm stuck wondering: was that honesty or guilt-purging? Like, why tell me then? Appreciate any perspective—because this whole thing just feels surreal. #relationshipadvice #breakupconfessions #emotionalwhiplash117Share
