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StarryNightOwl

My Baby Daddy Calls Me Names for What He Did Too 😢💔

Eight years with him, and I'm finally done. Last week, I had to ask Jake to pack his bags after another screaming match in front of our one-year-old daughter, Emma. 😔 It's always the same cycle - he'll yell, call me horrible names, then act like nothing happened for weeks. When we broke up three years ago, we were apart for eight months. We both dated other people during that time. I was honest about my two relationships when he asked. 💭 But here's the kicker - he can't even count how many women he was with, yet he still calls me a slut for moving on during OUR BREAK. Even sent flirty texts to one of them after we got back together! The audacity is unreal. 😤 Now I'm sitting here, wondering if I'm doing the right thing. Emma deserves better than watching her parents tear each other apart. The hole in my heart feels massive, but I know this toxic cycle has to end. Have you ever felt trapped between protecting your child and missing someone who hurt you? I could really use some advice right now. 💕 #toxicrelationships #singlemom #coparenting #FamilyRelationships

PioneerParrot

Stuck Living With My Ex—And Our Kids! When Breaking Up Isn’t Enough 😩🏠

Ever feel like you’re living in a sitcom, but it’s not funny? That’s my life right now. After 15 years together, my ex and I finally admitted our relationship was over. But thanks to money problems, we’re still stuck under the same roof, trying to keep things normal for our two kids. I’m sleeping on the couch, picking up extra jobs, and counting every penny just to save up for a way out. He pays most of the bills, but refuses to talk about selling the house or even share his finances. Every day feels like walking on eggshells, and the only break I get is when he’s off on his bike trips or I’m housesitting for friends. I’m exhausted, but I want to keep things peaceful for the kids. Has anyone else been through this? How did you cope? I’d love to hear your stories or advice—sometimes it helps just knowing I’m not alone. 💬 #FamilyStruggles #LivingWithAnEx #CoParenting #FamilyRelationships

MoonlitMirth

My Ex Left Me for Another Woman - How Much Contact Is Too Much? 💔

Three months ago, my world shattered when Jake walked out on our 10-year relationship. Within weeks, he was posting pictures with her - the woman he probably left me for 😞 Now I'm stuck in this awkward dance of co-parenting. He texts about picking up the kids, but then slides into casual conversation about his day or asks how I'm doing. Part of me craves that connection we once had, but another part knows I need boundaries to heal 💭 Last week, he sent me a funny meme totally unrelated to the kids. I stared at my phone for twenty minutes, unsure whether to respond. Are we supposed to be friends now? Is this normal? I'm trying to move forward, but these mixed signals make it so much harder. What's the right amount of contact with your ex when kids are involved? I really need to know I'm not crazy for wanting clearer boundaries 🤷‍♀️ #coparenting #divorce #movingon #FamilyRelationships

TwilightReverie

Juggling Four Kids, Two Exes, and Zero Weekends Off?! 😱

Sometimes I feel like my life is a never-ending game of musical chairs, but with kids instead of seats! My partner and I both have children from previous relationships—he has two (8 and 2 years old) with two different moms, and I have two (12 and 5 years old) with my ex. The twist? My partner is expected to have his kids every single weekend, while I alternate weekends with my ex. Because my partner works away all week, we barely see each other. When I finally get a kid-free weekend, he’s busy with his children, and when I have my kids, we’re suddenly a family of six! It feels like we never get any time for just us, and honestly, it’s wearing me down. We’re thinking about changing things up—maybe he could switch jobs to be around during the week and share weekends more fairly. But it’s so hard to figure out what’s right for everyone, especially when it seems like his exes get every weekend off. Has anyone else been stuck in this kind of family puzzle? How did you make it work? Please share your stories—I need some hope and advice! 🥲 #BlendedFamily #ParentingStruggles #CoParenting #FamilyRelationships

DigitalNomad

My Baby Daddy Moved On While I'm Still Broken 💔😭

Five months ago, my world crumbled when Jake walked out on me and our 10-week-old son. His reason? "I'm just not happy anymore." 😢 Can you believe that? I became a single mom overnight in our little apartment in Denver, trying to figure out how to juggle everything alone. Now I'm stuck in this nightmare of co-parenting with the man I'm still madly in love with. Every Tuesday when he picks up our son, my heart breaks all over again. 💔 We used to break up and make up all the time, so I kept hoping we'd find our way back to each other. But last night shattered that dream completely. I found out he slept with someone new. 😭 Even though I knew this day would come, it feels like a knife through my chest. How am I supposed to move on when I have to see him every week? Ladies, I'm desperate here. How do you get over someone when you can't cut them out of your life? I need your wisdom and support right now. 🙏 #SingleMom #CoParenting #Heartbreak #FamilyRelationships

ChillVibe98

Dad Refuses to Call 13-Year-Old Son First—Is This Fair? 😳📞

Lately, I’ve been struggling with a weird situation between my 13-year-old son and his dad. We live pretty far from his father, so they only see each other during school breaks. My son isn’t great at keeping in touch—he barely answers texts, let alone calls. So, I remind him to reach out to his dad. But now, his dad has decided he’s tired of always being the one to call. He’s stopped calling altogether, saying it’s my son’s turn. My son told me his dad is happier when he gets a call, but now it feels like a game of emotional tug-of-war. Honestly, it breaks my heart to see my son caught in the middle of this. Am I overreacting, or should a parent never put this kind of pressure on a kid? Has anyone else been through something like this? I’d love to hear your thoughts and stories. 💬❤️ #ParentingStruggles #FamilyDynamics #CoParenting #FamilyRelationships

SereneStarling

My Ex Won't Tell Me Where My Kids Visit Him! 😤

Two weeks ago, my ex-husband moved in with his new girlfriend, and our kids started their weekly visits there. I'm genuinely happy they're enjoying their time with dad - seeing their excited faces when they come back warms my heart! 😊 But here's what's driving me absolutely crazy: he refuses to give me his new address. I've asked multiple times, explaining it's just for emergencies. What if something happens? What if I need to reach them urgently? 😰 I know legally I might not have the "right" to know, but as their mom, isn't it reasonable to want this basic information? I'm not trying to spy or cause drama - I just want peace of mind when my babies are away from home. Am I being unreasonable here? How would you handle this situation? I feel so frustrated and powerless! 💔 #coparenting #divorce #parenting #FamilyRelationships

RavishingRogue

Ex Claims Kids Can't Share a Bed at Our Place 🙄😤

So here's the latest drama from my partner's ex... 🤦‍♀️ We have his kids (9-year-old son and 11-year-old daughter) every weekend, and they've always shared the guest room's double bed without any issues. They're siblings, they're comfortable, and honestly, they love their little sleepovers together! 😊 But now their mom is suddenly claiming it's "illegal" for them to share a bed at our house. Like, seriously? 🙄 This feels like another one of her attempts to control what happens during our time with the kids. I'm pretty sure she's just stirring up trouble again, but it's got me second-guessing everything. Has anyone else dealt with this kind of nonsense from an ex? I'm starting to feel like I need a law degree just to navigate weekend custody! 😩 What would you do in my situation? I could really use some advice from people who get it! 💕 #blendedFamily #coParenting #stepParent #FamilyRelationships

TechWizard101

Dad on the Brink: Protecting My Daughter from Her Own Mom! 😱

Ever feel like parenting is a circus act, and you’re the one walking the tightrope? That’s my life right now. Since my daughter was born, I’ve been her anchor—her safe place. The court decided she should live with me, and her mom only gets a few hours a week. But lately, even those visits have turned into a rollercoaster. Missed visits, unpredictable moods, and then the gut punch: her mom’s been battling painkillers and antidepressants. I tried to help by supervising their time together, hoping it would keep things safe. But now I wonder if I just made it easier for her to hide her struggles. The scariest moment? When she showed up, clearly not herself, wanting to see our daughter. My heart nearly stopped. I want my little girl to have her mom, but not if it means risking her safety. Have you ever felt torn between protecting your child and wanting them to have both parents? How did you handle it? Sometimes I feel like I’m carrying this weight alone. I’d love to hear your stories and advice—let’s support each other. 🤔 #ParentingStruggles #CoParenting #FamilyDrama #FamilyRelationships

QuartzPhoenix

My Ex’s Girlfriend Ruined Our Family Weekend! 😱

Ever feel like co-parenting is just a wild ride you never signed up for? That’s exactly where I am right now. My 4-year-old daughter and I have always been a team, but suddenly her dad—who’s usually MIA—decides he wants to play the hero. No real talks, no plans, just chaos. Last weekend was supposed to be special—my mom’s birthday, family gathered at our place in Chicago. Her dad promised to drop her off by noon, but they didn’t show up until after dinner. I called, I texted—nothing. When my daughter finally came home, she was teary-eyed and told me her dad’s girlfriend chased her up the stairs, yelling. My heart broke. How do you trust someone who’s never been reliable, but now wants to call the shots? I’m torn between protecting my little girl and being forced to share her. Has anyone else survived this kind of family drama? Please, share your stories—I could really use some advice and support right now. 💬 #coparenting #familydrama #parentingstruggles #FamilyRelationships

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