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always fighting over nothing? try these 7 love hacks 🫠

Here are 7 little swaps me and my partner started using that seriously cut down on arguments and made us feel way closer: 💬 Don’t: “can you please stop leaving your socks everywhere?”  ✅ Try: “babe, the socks miss the laundry basket again 😅 can we help them find home?” 🚀 Don’t: “you never listen to me!”  ✅ Try: “sometimes I feel unheard… can we talk again when we’re both less distracted?” 😡 Don’t: “you always do this!”  ✅ Try: “I know that’s not your intention, but it made me feel a little off. Can we figure it out together?” 🧊 Skip cold shoulders and guilt trips. They don’t work, they just hurt. 🧠 Before talking, ask: what do they need emotionally right now? 🕰 Don’t bring up heavy stuff when you’re starving or half-asleep. Bad timing = big mess. 🤝 It’s not me vs you. It’s us vs the problem. #couplegoals #relationshiptips #communicatebetter