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SonicTrailblazer

The boyfriends I date love my money instead of me. I am a mobile ATM. 😳💸🤡

I always thought Mark loved me for who I am, not for my family’s business or money. We met when I was a waitress, and he seemed so genuine—never flashy, always insisting on paying his own way. My family was skeptical at first, but I defended him fiercely. Now, after overhearing him joke with friends about my money and calling me names like "trust fund Barbie," I feel betrayed, angry, and humiliated. Was it all just an act? How do you rebuild trust when you find out your partner might be with you for all the wrong reasons? I’m lost, ashamed, and honestly, just want to scream. If you’ve ever felt this way, how did you cope? What would you do if you were in my shoes? Let’s talk, because I really need someone to listen right now. 😤💔🤯 #TrustIssues #RelationshipDrama #GoldDigger #Heartbreak #AdviceNeeded #RomanticRelationships

The boyfriends I date love my money instead of me. I am a mobile ATM. 😳💸🤡
HarmonyHusky

Big Liar! My boyfriend created a successful persona for himself😳🤯

For almost three years, I thought my boyfriend and I were soulmates—bonded by similar tough upbringings and the shared stress of supporting our families. Turns out, his story was built on a pile of lies. He claimed he owned a fancy condo, paid off huge debts, and helped his parents financially—just like I do for my mom. But after confronting him, I found out he doesn’t own the condo, his parents pay his phone bill, and he’s been lying about his finances the whole time. Now, I’m stuck questioning everything: Is this just a harmless white lie that spiraled out of control, or a massive red flag? How do you rebuild trust after something like this? I’m angry, confused, and honestly, just exhausted. Would you stay or go? Help me out here, bestie! 🙃🤦‍♀️😤 #TrustIssues #RelationshipDrama #LiesAndLove #AdviceNeeded #RomanticRelationships

Big Liar! My boyfriend created a successful persona for himself😳🤯
GlitterQueen22

My Boyfriend's Drinking Is Ruining Our Trust (and My Carpet) 🤦‍♀️🍻

Living with my boyfriend in my cozy Chicago apartment was supposed to be a dream, but lately, it's been a nightmare. He's an amazing guy—kind, funny, and a great listener. But every few weeks, he drinks himself into oblivion, and suddenly my floors, laundry basket, and even my filing cabinet become his bathroom. I can't tell you how many times I've woken up in the middle of the night to chaos, anger, and the smell of disaster. We've had countless talks about trust, boundaries, and respect. He promises to stop, but then the cycle repeats. Last night, he shattered my mirror during a drunken workout. This morning, he texted another apology, but I just feel numb. Am I wrong for wanting more? Is it possible to rebuild trust after so many broken promises? Or am I just fooling myself? Honestly, I need your advice—how do you fix trust when it feels like it's already shattered? 😩🧹🍺🤷‍♀️ #RelationshipStruggles #TrustIssues #AlcoholProblems #Boundaries #AdviceNeeded #RomanticRelationships

My Boyfriend's Drinking Is Ruining Our Trust (and My Carpet) 🤦‍♀️🍻
CrystallineCrane

My mother seems to be secretly giving money to others 😳💔

Last night, I caught my mom sneaking out with her phone, whispering to someone who definitely wasn’t my dad. My stomach dropped. She’s the one who pays the bills, hustles for free meds, and keeps us afloat while Dad’s sick in bed. But now I can’t stop wondering—has she been using our family’s money for someone else? All those nights she said she was working late, was it just a cover? My sister and I are furious and lost. Do we blow up our family by telling Dad, or keep this secret and let it eat us alive? I feel like I’m drowning in lies and dollar signs. What would you do if your world flipped upside down overnight? 😔😤 #FamilyDrama #FinancialConflict #TrustIssues #AdviceNeeded #RomanticRelationships

My mother seems to be secretly giving money to others 😳💔
ScarletSky

Is being drunk an excuse to seduce someone else's boyfriend?😳📱

It’s a regular night in our small apartment, and suddenly my boyfriend Nick gets a drunken FaceTime from a group of his girl friends. They’re all giggling and M also said a lot of sexually suggestive things.” I was right there! My jaw dropped. I felt a mix of anger, confusion, and honestly, a bit of embarrassment. Why would they do that? And why did Nick just laugh it off? After stewing for a bit, I finally told Nick how uncomfortable it made me. He actually listened and explained everything, even showing me the texts where the main girl, M, apologized. She was super drunk and said it was just a dumb joke. I get it, but I still feel weird about those friends now. Trust is so fragile—one wild night and everything feels shaky. Have you ever had your trust tested like this? How did you handle it? I need advice, because I’m still not sure how to feel! 🙃🤦‍♀️🍸 #TrustIssues #RelationshipDrama #Jealousy #Boundaries #AdviceNeeded #RomanticRelationships

Is being drunk an excuse to seduce someone else's boyfriend?😳📱
JollyJamboree

He Called Me a Thief Over a 30p Bag?! 😂🙄

So, my boyfriend (21M) and I (20F) have been dating for a few months, and things were going well... until a plastic bag nearly ended us. We went grocery shopping, and I forgot to pay for a 30p bag. He got so mad, made me carry it through town, and even called me a thief—loud enough for everyone to hear! I was mortified, especially since I used to work at that store. Later, he kept bringing up the bag, totally ignoring how humiliated I felt. He said it was about the principle, not the money, but I just felt belittled. He even walked home at 3am after we argued! Am I overreacting, or is this a huge red flag? How do you rebuild trust after something so petty blows up? Please tell me I’m not crazy! 😤🛍️🤦‍♀️ #RelationshipDrama #TrustIssues #FeelingHumiliated #AdviceNeeded #RomanticRelationships

He Called Me a Thief Over a 30p Bag?! 😂🙄
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