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Ara

Is true friendship truly rare?​

Growing up, I always believed that I’d experience at least one meaningful friendship in my life—a bond where I could truly connect with someone without fear of betrayal. This belief was fueled by media portrayals, which I now realize were naive. As an adult, I’ve tried to open up and nurture several “friendships,” but none have lasted. Sometimes I wonder if it’s my fault—I wasn’t exactly the social butterfly in kindergarten or school. Maybe it’s too late now. So, is true friendship rare, or is it just impossible for someone like me? I’m starting to think that while friendship might not be rare in general, it could be unattainable for people like me who struggle with social connections. What do you think? Have you found lasting friendships, or do you find them hard to come by too? Let’s discuss! 👇 #Friendship #SocialStruggles #TrueConnection #Loneliness #Adulting

Is true friendship truly rare?​
Ara

High - Maintenance friendships: The key to true connection​

Many say “low - maintenance” friendships are ideal. I disagree. “High - maintenance” friendships are where it’s at. When both people actively engage in each other’s lives, that’s when friendships shine. It’s not about one person doing all the work. Both should initiate conversations and gatherings without feeling overburdened. Regular communication and get - togethers keep the bond strong and deepen the connection. Life gets busy, but that’s no excuse to neglect friends. If you can reach out to your partner, you can do the same for friends. Communication is vital for both friendships and romantic relationships. If someone only shows up every 3 - 6 months, how can they be part of your life? That’s a “catch - up” friend, not a true companion. #Friendship #HighMaintenanceFriendship #ActiveParticipation #Communication #TrueConnection

High - Maintenance friendships: The key to true connection​
mary99

is what we call "love" really just a selfish need?

Have you ever stopped and wondered if what we often call "love" is actually more about what we can take from others than truly giving? A lot of the time, relationships aren't about genuine love but a need to fill emotional gaps or material voids in ourselves. When we feel empty or incomplete, we turn to others for validation, expecting them to fulfill those needs, which creates a cycle of dependency. True love isn't about filling a void. It's about overflowing from a place of self-love and emotional fulfillment. It’s about understanding and empathizing with others because we've first learned to understand ourselves. The love that comes from a whole person, who is secure in who they are, is a love that doesn’t ask for anything—it only gives. A healthy relationship isn’t about taking, it’s about giving. It’s about 1+1 being more than 2 when both individuals are complete. #selflove #healthyrelationships #trueconnection

 is what we call "love" really just a selfish need?