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She Changes Every Month—and I Don’t Know If I Can Do This Anymore

Been dating my girlfriend (Chelsea, 24F) for almost a year. We moved in together recently—and every month when her period hits, so does emotional chaos. I cook, clean, buy snacks, ask what she needs. She shuts me out or tells me I should “just know.” Last week, I finally cracked. Told her I felt like a servant constantly getting it wrong. She just said, “Quit being a baby.” That night I slept on the couch—and haven’t gone back since. She’s sweet the rest of the month. But I realized: marriage won’t make this vanish. I can’t keep walking on emotional landmines every 30 days. I love her, but I don’t want to live like this. Thinking about breaking up tomorrow and getting a hotel for space. Anyone been through this? Am I overreacting—or finally seeing things clearly? #RelationshipAdvice #ToxicLove #MentalLoad #BreakupThoughts #SupportButDrained