I watched a short clip of Chrisean fighting, and from the angle I saw, it did not look like she really hit the girl. To me, it looked fake, almost like the other girl threw the match.
That was my opinion.
Nothing deep. Nothing dramatic. Just what it looked like to me from the clip I saw.
What made it even crazier is that other people in the comments were saying the same thing. A few people agreed that it looked off. Some said it looked staged. Some said they did not see a real hit either.
But somehow, instead of accepting that people saw the clip differently, one person decided to target me specifically and get disrespectful.
That is the part I do not understand.
Disagreement is one thing. Being disrespectful over a simple opinion is another. Everybody is not going to see things the way you see them. Everybody is not going to interpret a short clip the same way. Angles matter. Timing matters. What one person catches, another person may not.
But some people do not know how to disagree without trying to tear somebody down. They do not respond to the opinion. They attack the person.
And let me be clear, thinking somebody is an easy target is a bad mistake.
I can disagree respectfully, but I am not going to sit there and let somebody talk crazy to me because they got in their feelings over my opinion. It is not sweet over here, and it never was.
The internet has made too many people comfortable being rude over small things. A simple opinion should not send anybody into attack mode.
Because if another person’s opinion gets you that worked up, the problem may not be the opinion.
It might be your inability to handle disagreement.
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