Why Do Exes Always Come Back? Not a Backup Plan
Is there a secret memo that goes out to exes saying, "Hey, it's time to circle back and see if she's still available"? Because in the last few months, three guys who dumped me suddenly remembered I exist. One after years, another after months, all wanting a second shot.
Tried talking to the first one again—big mistake. It just reopened old wounds and made me realize how much I’d healed since. The other two? Left them on read. I’m not a lost item you can just pick up when you’re bored or lonely.
Honestly, it’s exhausting. These are grown men, not teenagers. I used to blame myself for being single, but now I see it’s not about me. Maybe it’s just the illusion of endless options, or maybe people just don’t know what they want. Either way, I’m done being someone’s backup plan.
Anyone else tired of being the fallback?
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