I Finally Stopped Arguing—Here’s How!
Ever feel like every convo turns into a battle? 😅 I used to, too! But I found a way to talk (and listen!) without all the drama—Nonviolent Communication (NVC). 🙈❤️
Here’s what’s helped me keep things cool:
• I stick to facts, not judgments. ("I noticed..." instead of "You always...")
• I name my feelings honestly—no shame, just real talk.
• I share what I need, not just what I want. (Companionship, not just "hang out with me!")
• I make clear, doable requests—no hinting or guilt trips!
But here’s the thing: I also respect boundaries. Not everyone’s ready for deep talks, and that’s okay. If someone’s not open, I don’t push. And if someone’s being mean on purpose? I protect myself and walk away. 🙅♂️
NVC isn’t magic, but it’s helped me connect, set boundaries, and actually feel heard. If you’re tired of endless arguments, give it a try!
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