Can having a baby really improve your marriage? 🤔
My friend and her husband had a solid relationship before having a baby. They planned everything carefully—pregnancy, finances, even paternity leave. Her husband went above and beyond, taking five months off to help with the baby. It was supposed to be smooth sailing, right?
But once the baby came, things took a turn:
Patience thinned: Exhaustion led to frustration and less tolerance for each other’s quirks.
New power dynamics: Whoever was holding the baby seemed to hold the "authority," which created tension.
Disconnected: By the time the baby was asleep, they were too tired to communicate or bond.
Emotional strain: Both broke down and cried, realizing how much their relationship had changed.
The truth is, having a baby doesn’t automatically improve your marriage. It can bring unexpected challenges that test even the strongest relationships. Before making the leap, it’s crucial to truly understand the potential shifts in your dynamic. It's a major life change, not always a smooth ride.
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