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The Decline of Basic Courtesy… And Why No One Seems to Care Anymore

Something has shifted in the way people interact with each other. Courtesy, the simple everyday kind that used to be automatic, now feels like an optional skill. Holding doors, acknowledging someone’s presence, saying “thank you,” respecting personal space… gestures that once formed the foundation of social life don’t appear as common as they once were. Several factors seem to be driving this change. The pace of modern life has sped up, and many people feel overwhelmed, distracted, or disconnected. Digital spaces have created environments where communication is quick and often impersonal, shaping the way we engage in real life. Some people move through the world with a sense of frustration or exhaustion that leaves little room for patience. There is also a growing sense of individualism. Many people prioritize personal convenience over collective consideration, framing courtesy as something optional rather than a shared responsibility. In public spaces, this shows up in small but noticeable ways: cutting in lines, ignoring boundaries, speaking harshly, or failing to acknowledge the impact of one’s behavior on others. Yet, what’s interesting is how normalized these shifts have become. Instead of correcting the behavior, many people simply expect it now. The decline of courtesy is rarely addressed, and because of that silence, it continues to expand into everyday life. At its core, courtesy is not about formality or strict rules. It’s about recognizing one another’s humanity. When small acts of respect disappear, the overall tone of society changes. The question isn’t whether courtesy is gone for good… it’s whether enough people still believe it matters. #NewsBreak #LataraSpeaksTruth #ModernLife #CultureShift #EverydayBehavior #Respect

The Decline of Basic Courtesy… And Why No One Seems to Care Anymore
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Twista Celebrates Another Year… Born November 27, 1973

Today we celebrate the birthday of Twista, the Chicago mastermind whose skill wasn’t just fast… it was controlled, intentional, and built from real breath and discipline. Nobody was bending syllables, flipping pockets, and slicing through beats the way he did. He made precision an entire personality. Adrenaline Rush wasn’t just an album… it was a Chicago time capsule. Dark, raw, street-heavy, and ahead of its era. The title track alone had a whole generation rewinding verses just to keep up. And Kamikaze? That album slammed the door open all over again. “Slow Jamz” and “Overnight Celebrity” took him from hometown legend to worldwide force… but the core Twista was still right there, sharp as ever. His flow shaped the Midwest. His influence still sits heavy in hip-hop classrooms, studio sessions, and any conversation about technique. Rappers study him. Fans respect him. And Chicago will always claim him proudly. Here’s to another year of a man who didn’t just rap fast… he rapped with mastery. Happy Birthday to Twista. #OnThisDay #HipHopWasHere #MusicHistory #LataraSpeaksTruth

Twista Celebrates Another Year… Born November 27, 1973
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The Psychology of Grudges

A grudge forms when the mind refuses to close a door that should have never been opened in the first place. It is the emotional replay button that keeps looping because the moment felt too heavy to process. A grudge is not about pettiness. A grudge is about impact. When someone hurts you in a way that shakes your identity or your trust, your brain files it under danger and tries to keep you from ever getting blindsided again. Some people hold grudges because the pain was deep. Others hold them because the apology never came. And sometimes it is because the apology came but the behavior never changed. A grudge becomes the record of the moment where your boundaries were crossed and your voice felt ignored. Keeping that memory sharp feels like protection. But the problem is the weight. A grudge builds a whole internal story. Every new thing that person does gets filtered through the old wound. Every silence feels intentional. Every conversation feels like a setup. And slowly the grudge stops being about them and starts shaping who you become. The psychology behind a grudge is simple. Your mind is trying to make sense of something that felt senseless. Your heart is trying to keep you safe. Your ego is trying to reclaim power. It is survival mixed with pride mixed with hurt. It is you trying to not be the version of yourself that got hurt the first time. But a grudge does not protect you the way it promises. It traps you in the same emotional room as the person who harmed you. It keeps you circling the same story. It makes you rehearse conversations that will never happen and prepare for battles that no longer exist. Letting go is not saying they were right. Letting go is saying you choose freedom over replaying the same wound. A grudge is an emotional bruise. Healing is the choice to stop pressing on it. #PsychologyOfGrudges #MentalPatterns #EmotionalAwareness #HealingJourney #LataraSpeaksTruth

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Street Psalm: Family Tree 18 – The Tables Turned

The famine hit hard. Land cracked. Rivers shrank. Harvests failed until whole nations were begging for bread. But Egypt? Egypt was stocked. Egypt was steady. Egypt was ready… because Joseph had already seen the storm before it arrived. While the world panicked, Joseph was pouring grain like water. Every city lined up. Every region stretched its hands. And the man they once threw into a pit was now feeding entire kingdoms. Back in Canaan, Jacob heard Egypt had food. He told his sons, “Go. Buy grain before we die out here.” Ten brothers left, not knowing destiny was already waiting behind Egyptian doors. They walked into the palace, dusty from travel, shoulders tense, eyes low… and bowed before the governor of the land. They didn’t know. But Joseph did. The dream he had at seventeen stood up in the room. The sheaves bowing. The stars bending. The vision everybody laughed at finally breathing in real time. Joseph stared at the brothers who betrayed him. The ones who tore off his coat. The ones who sold him like cargo. The ones who erased him from the family photo. But they didn’t recognize him. Favor will change your face. Elevation will rewrite your posture. Growth will make you unrecognizable to the people who broke you. Joseph didn’t lash out. Didn’t expose them. Didn’t return the violence. He tested them. Not to hurt them, but to see if they were the same men who hurt him. He spoke through an interpreter. He kept his identity hidden. But inside, his heart was breaking open and healing at the same time. They bowed again, and Joseph stepped away to weep. Sometimes God brings your past back not for revenge, but for closure… to show you how far you’ve come and how small that pain looks from the place He raised you to. The brothers came for grain. Joseph came for reconciliation. But the story wasn’t finished yet. #StreetPsalmsAndFamilyTrees #LataraSpeaksTruth #FaithAndCulture #GenesisSeries

Street Psalm: Family Tree 18 – The Tables Turned
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Tina Turner: Born November 26, 1939

Tina Turner was born in Nutbush, Tennessee, in 1939. She grew up in a rural community and stepped into music at a young age, eventually becoming one of the most influential performers of her era. Her early years in the industry placed her in the center of a sound that blended rock, soul, and rhythm, and her presence quickly became known for intensity and precision. Her later solo career reshaped her trajectory. In the 1980s she released songs that reached global audiences and helped establish her as a major figure in popular music. Her concerts, visuals, and voice became central to her image and contributed to her recognition across generations. Her life story is often associated with resilience, personal change, and reinvention. Tina Turner remains a significant figure whose influence can still be traced in music, performance style, and cultural memory. #TinaTurner #BornOnThisDay #MusicHistory #RockAndSoul #AmericanIcons #OnThisDay #LegendaryVoices #CulturalHistory #LataraSpeaksTruth

Tina Turner: Born November 26, 1939
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The Psychology of False Equivalence

False equivalence is when someone compares two things as if they’re equal… even when the situations, stakes, or histories are nowhere near the same. It looks like a fair comparison on the surface, but underneath, the logic is uneven. This tactic shows up a lot when people feel uncomfortable with facts and start reaching for anything that “sounds” like a counterpoint. On my posts, false equivalence usually shows up when someone tries to flatten two completely different experiences. Instead of engaging with the actual point, they pull out a distraction… a comparison that doesn’t fit… or a “well actually” that jumps over the context. It’s a way of dodging the truth without looking like they’re dodging the truth. You’ll see it when someone responds to historical examples they didn’t read, argues against points that aren’t in the post, or brings up a whole different scenario as if it proves something. The goal isn’t clarity… it’s derailment. And once the conversation slips into false equivalence, everything loops: they argue a point you never made, you correct it, and they jump to the next mismatched comparison. That’s why it’s important to name this pattern. When people shift into false equivalence, they’re not debating… they’re avoiding. And when you understand the tactic, it loses its power. #PsychologyOf #OnlineBehavior #Patterns #ArgumentMindset #LataraSpeaksTruth

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Street Psalm: Family Tree 17 – When Destiny Walked Into the Throne Room

Joseph woke up that morning a prisoner. Same walls. Same chains. Same waiting. He had no clue Heaven had already moved his name to the top of Pharaoh’s agenda. Pharaoh wasn’t sleeping right. Dreams were shaking him awake… cows, grain, warnings wrapped in symbols nobody could decode. Magicians failed him. Advisors failed him. Everybody had a theory, but nobody had the truth. Then the cupbearer remembered. The same man who forgot Joseph for years suddenly said, “I know somebody. A Hebrew. Still down in the prison. He interpreted my dream… and everything happened exactly like he said.” Joseph didn’t know any of this. He was minding his business when the guards rushed in, cleaned him up, shaved him, dressed him, and led him toward light he hadn’t seen in years. He walked into Pharaoh’s throne room humble, not hungry. Confident, not cocky. A man who had learned that purpose follows pain like a shadow. Pharaoh said, “I heard you can interpret dreams.” Joseph shook his head. “It’s not me. God gives the answers.” Then he broke the dream wide open. Seven years of plenty. Seven years of famine. A strategy so clear, Pharaoh didn’t even blink. “Can we find anyone like this man?” he said. “A man in whom the Spirit of God lives?” Just like that… prisoner became prime minister. Joseph walked out of that room with Pharaoh’s ring, Pharaoh’s robe, Pharaoh’s authority… and a destiny nobody could steal. When God calls your name into the right room, you don’t have to network your way in. You don’t have to knock. He opens doors that weren’t even in the hallway you were walking. Joseph started that morning behind bars. He ended it with keys to the whole kingdom. Purpose moves quiet, but when it shows up, it shows OUT. #StreetPsalmsAndFamilyTrees #LataraSpeaksTruth #FaithAndCulture #GenesisSeries

Street Psalm: Family Tree 17 – When Destiny Walked Into the Throne RoomStreet Psalm: Family Tree 17 – When Destiny Walked Into the Throne Room
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1960: Atlanta Students Picket Segregated Downtown Stores

1960 sits heavy in Atlanta. College students from the Atlanta University Center picked up their signs again after negotiations with downtown stores went nowhere. They were joined by a small group of white students from Emory and Agnes Scott who understood that segregation was not just a Southern tradition but a barrier that the nation could no longer excuse. On November 25 they moved through the city’s busy heart and stood outside department stores and lunch counters that still refused to serve Black customers. These stores were symbols of the everyday rules that shaped Atlanta at the time. The students believed that if change was going to come, it had to start where people shopped, ate, and lived their daily lives. Their picket lines were steady and disciplined. They demanded equal access to public accommodations and stayed committed even when talks with business leaders stalled. Their actions were part of the larger sit-in movement that pushed Atlanta to face the truth about discrimination in its public spaces. This moment was not loud or explosive. It was a clear reminder that young people were willing to step into uncomfortable places and challenge the structures that had been accepted for generations. Their presence pressured leaders to reconsider policies and forced the city to confront an issue that could not be delayed any longer. These protests helped shift public opinion and moved Atlanta a little closer to the change that many had been fighting for long before 1960. #BlackHistory #AtlantaHistory #SitInMovement #CivilRightsStories #LataraSpeaksTruth

1960: Atlanta Students Picket Segregated Downtown Stores
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1919: Equal Rights League Challenges Federal Inaction

In November 1919, the country was still shaken from the violence known as the Red Summer. Cities across the nation had experienced unrest, and Black communities were left with little protection as organized mobs carried out attacks. On November 25, the National Equal Rights League sent a direct message to the White House that called attention to this crisis. They addressed President Woodrow Wilson in a formal letter and asked why the federal government had not acted to protect Black citizens from lynching and mob violence. The League stated that the government had the responsibility to step in when people were being harmed in their homes, workplaces, and neighborhoods. They noted that the violence was not limited to one region. It was happening across the country and required leadership from the highest levels of government. Their message also pointed out that a nation calling itself modern could not ignore such conditions. They urged President Wilson to support stronger legal protections and to enforce the laws that already existed but were not being applied evenly. The letter was part of a larger movement of Black advocacy groups pushing for national attention years before the major civil rights campaigns of the 1950s and 1960s. Their challenge to federal inaction showed a growing demand for fairness, safety, and accountability. While no significant changes were made by the administration at the time, the League’s action remains an important example of early national pressure for civil rights. It highlighted the determination of Black leaders who refused to remain silent and who called on the country to live up to its stated values. #OnThisDay #AmericanHistory #EqualRightsLeague #BlackHistoryFacts #LataraSpeaksTruth

1919: Equal Rights League Challenges Federal Inaction