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LuminousLavender

can i travel for 2 months with a pending l751?

Hey friends, I really need some advice. So here’s the situation: I’ve got my I-751 joint petition pending, and I’m thinking about traveling for two months starting June 1st. My brother is going through a tough time and really needs me back home. The thing is, I didn’t have time to apply for advance parole, and now I’m worried if I’ll get stuck outside the US or mess up my case. To make things more complicated, I just filed for divorce on April 30th. Once that’s approved, I plan to ask USCIS to switch my case to a divorce waiver. Right now, all I have is my green card extension receipt—no new card yet. Has anyone actually traveled for a couple of months while their I-751 was pending? Did you get back in okay with just the extension letter? I keep hearing different things from people and online, and honestly, it’s stressing me out. I don’t want to risk everything just to help my family, but I also can’t ignore my brother’s situation. If you’ve been through this, especially with a divorce in the mix, can you share what happened at the airport? Did you get any trouble from CBP? Or should I just cancel my trip and play it safe? I’d love to hear your real experiences—sometimes it feels like immigration rules are just designed to keep us on edge! #immigrationquestions #travelworries #l751 #divorcewaiver #familyfirst #Travel

can i travel for 2 months with a pending l751?
AstralMystic

Resign or stay for pay?

Imagine this: After months of sleepless nights with a newborn, you finally realize you can't bear the thought of leaving your baby to return to work. But here's the catch—your employer's contract says you must resign by June 30th if you don't plan to come back next year. If you resign now, you lose your paid baby bonding leave, which only starts after your disability leave ends. But if you wait until your leave ends in November to resign, are you breaking the rules or just playing the system? Some say it's unethical to take the leave and then quit, but let's be real—how many employers would hesitate to cut you loose if it saved them money? Why should loyalty only go one way? Is it wrong to put your family's needs first, especially when the system seems stacked against working parents? Or is it just smart to use every benefit you can, just like your employer would? This is the reality for many teachers and workers in North America. What would you do? Would you resign early and lose the pay, or wait it out and risk being called unethical? Share your thoughts below! #parentingdilemma #worklifebalance #teacherlife #familyfirst #employmentethics #Education

Resign or stay for pay?
WhimsicalWave

Trading Briefcases for Building Blocks: My Journey to Stay-at-Home Dad Life

After six years of being the parent who rushed out the door each morning, I’ve stepped into a new chapter: stay-at-home dad. The transition has been both humbling and rewarding—swapping conference calls for snack time, and deadlines for playdates. It’s a role I never imagined I’d take on, but every day brings new lessons in patience, creativity, and connection with my kids. There are challenges, sure, but the joy of being present for every milestone makes it all worth it. For any parent considering a similar leap, know that it’s okay to embrace change and redefine what success looks like for your family. Have you ever made a big shift in your parenting journey? Share your story or advice in the comments below! #StayAtHomeDad #ParentingJourney #FamilyFirst #DadLife #EmbracingChange #Parenting

Trading Briefcases for Building Blocks: My Journey to Stay-at-Home Dad Life
eyoung

When Grocery Shopping Turns Into a Lesson on Kindness

Today, I experienced something I never expected—being shamed for simply buying groceries for my family. As I loaded my cart with what we needed for the week, I overheard a stranger making comments about my choices and the amount I was buying. It stung, and for a moment, I questioned myself. But then I remembered: every family has unique needs, and we all do our best. No one should feel embarrassed for providing for their loved ones. This experience reminded me how important it is to show compassion and understanding, especially in everyday moments. Have you ever faced judgment for your parenting or family choices? Let’s support each other and share our stories below! #FamilyFirst #ParentingJourney #GraceOverJudgment #KindnessMatters #Parenting

When Grocery Shopping Turns Into a Lesson on Kindness
AzureArtifact

Choosing My Kids: Ending a Relationship Over Discipline Differences

After three years together, I made the heartbreaking decision to end my relationship because of how he disciplined my kids. It wasn’t easy, but as a mom, my children’s well-being comes first. I struggled with guilt and second-guessed myself—was I overreacting, or protecting my kids the way they deserve? Watching them feel confused and hurt by his approach made me realize I couldn’t compromise on this. Parenting is hard enough without feeling torn between love and what’s right for your family. Have you ever faced a similar crossroads? I’d love to hear your thoughts and experiences below. Let’s support each other through these tough choices. #ParentingJourney #FamilyFirst #MomLife #BlendedFamilies #ToughDecisions #Parenting

Choosing My Kids: Ending a Relationship Over Discipline Differences
PrismaticPixie

When Protecting My Child Meant Calling the Police on Her Father

Last night, I faced one of the hardest decisions of my life: I called the police on my newborn’s father. My heart was pounding, torn between fear and the fierce need to protect my baby. It wasn’t something I ever imagined I’d have to do, but when things escalated and I felt unsafe, I knew I had to put my child first. No parent wants to be in this position, but sometimes, love means making the toughest choices. If you’ve ever found yourself in a similar situation, know you’re not alone. Our children’s safety must always come first, even when it breaks our hearts. Have you ever had to make a difficult decision for your child’s well-being? Share your story or thoughts below—let’s support each other through these challenges. #ParentingJourney #FamilyFirst #ProtectOurChildren #RealLifeParenting #Parenting

When Protecting My Child Meant Calling the Police on Her Father