My ex cost me my dream job
Before you end a serious relationship, change every single password. I wish someone had told me this.
A few months ago, I was applying for a job that felt like the one. After two rounds of interviews, the hiring manager told me I was their top candidate.
Then — silence.
Weeks later, I found out the company had hired someone else. When I followed up out of curiosity, they sent me an email I supposedly wrote withdrawing my application.
I never sent that.
Turns out my ex — who I broke up with during the interview process — still had access to my laptop, email, everything. In one rage-fueled evening, he deleted my social media, changed my logins, and sabotaged my career. The email wasn’t even spiteful. It was polite. Professional. Like I ghosted the job for no reason.
I lost the opportunity forever.
No matter how “nice” your partner seems, breakups flip switches in people. Don’t wait to find out how far they’ll go.
Change. Your. Passwords.
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