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Cheryl Hernandez

20 days after complaining about gaining weight, I've lost weight!

It's been exactly 20 days since my last post was published. I know Pilates won't make me gain weight. There must be something wrong, so I consulted my coach and sent her pictures of my diet. She told me that I had eaten too much😂. I reflected on it. Every time I do Pilates, I feel like I should treat myself, so I don't control my diet. That's why I've gained weight! I immediately changed my diet. I halved the portion I ate but still persisted in Pilates😖. Now, in 20 days, I've lost 3 pounds💪. Although it's not much, I'm very satisfied and glad that I kept it up! #LoseWeight #Pilates #Diet #Confused #Workout

Timothy Gardner College Drama Collector

My students and I really like each other.

Confusion from a young male professor: “This is something that makes me feel extremely tormented. Please don't blame me. There are many taboos about this matter. I'm not asking whether dating students is right or wrong. I am a rather charming, young, healthy and single male professor. I just got a teaching assistant position. This kind of power relationship seems to only make me more attractive to certain students. Needless to say, many of them are also very charming. When students are clearly attracted to you and you also have a good impression of them, how should you deal with it? How can you avoid this torrent of emotions? How can I keep my career going?“ #Gossip #CollegeTeaching #TeacherCrush #StudentLove #Confused

LilacLioness

Why Do Recipes Make Us Flip Back and Forth? Ingredient Amounts Should Be in the Steps!

Trying to bake gingerbread cookies last weekend, I kept getting lost in the recipe. The ingredient list was up top, but every step just said “add sugar” or “whisk in allspice.” I had to keep glancing back to remember if it was 2 cups or 1 ½ cups of sugar, and it got old fast. Especially when a recipe has a bunch of steps, it’s way easier to follow without losing track. I’m not sure why more cookbooks don’t do this. Maybe it looks cleaner to keep the measures separate, but it’s not practical. #Confused #homecooking #Food #Cooking

howardlarry

how do i move forward after my girlfriend cheated and got hurt?

I’m really lost right now and could use some advice. My girlfriend and I have been together for a couple years. Recently, I found out she was planning to cheat on me. But things got way worse—she was assaulted during the whole thing. I’m torn between feeling betrayed and wanting to support her. I care about her a lot, but I can’t ignore what happened. At the same time, I know she’s dealing with a lot of pain and trauma. I don’t know if I should stay and help her heal, or if it’s better for both of us to take a break. Has anyone else been through something like this? How do you even start to process all these emotions? Any advice or thoughts would mean a lot right now. relationshipadvice #trustissues #healing #support #confused #relationshipadvice #trustissues #healing #support #confused #RomanticRelationships

Tim Jenkins

should i walk away from my kid to keep my girlfriend or own up?

I’m in a huge mess and could really use some advice. I’ve been with my girlfriend for six years, and she means the world to me. But recently, my old friend-with-benefits told me she might be pregnant, and there’s a chance I’m the dad. My girlfriend doesn’t know about this, and I’m terrified of losing her. The thought of being a dad with someone else is freaking me out. Part of me wants to just give up my rights and pretend it never happened, just to keep my relationship safe. But another part of me feels guilty for even thinking that. Has anyone been in a situation like this? Is it even possible to save my relationship, or am I just making things worse by hiding the truth? I’m so lost and don’t know what to do next. relationshipadvice #parenting #affair #help #confused #relationshipadvice #parenting #affair #help #confused #RomanticRelationships

Eric Ford

Turkey hunting rules got me confused! 🦃

U.S. turkey hunting is super strict - each state has different permit and license requirements. Anyone else overwhelmed by all the regulations? #hunting #turkeyhunting #permits #regulations #confused