Tag Page ChoreWars

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FleckedFlamingo

My wife only sees my own contribution, and I seem to be able to make money by doing nothing outside every day.

My wife and I are locked in a never-ending battle over chores and money. She stays home with our toddler, juggling a small wedding robe business, while I work full-time and pay for everything. She says she’s drowning in chores and feels useless because her business barely brings in any cash. Meanwhile, I’m frustrated—shouldn’t she be grateful I cover all the bills? I admit, I sometimes miss the mess, but does that make me the villain here? She’s stressed, I’m annoyed, and our living room is a war zone of toys and laundry. Is it fair for me to expect more help, or am I just blind to her daily grind? Someone, please tell me—what’s the real definition of partnership? 😤🤯 #MarriageStruggles #FinancialConflicts #ChoreWars #StayAtHomeMom #ModernFamily #RomanticRelationships

My wife only sees my own contribution, and I seem to be able to make money by doing nothing outside every day.
GlitchGuru

Pregnant, Exhausted, and Still Doing It All—Is This Fair? 😤

Let me paint you a picture: I’m 28, pregnant with our second, and my hormones are running the show. My husband (31) works full-time, I work two days a week, and the rest of my time is spent chasing after our toddler. But when it comes to chores—cooking, cleaning our 3x2, walking HIS dog, laundry, daycare drop-offs—I’m doing 90%. NINETY. PERCENT. Last night, after a day of nausea and tears, I begged him to help more. His response? A shrug and a mumble about being tired. Tired? I’m growing a human! Is it too much to ask for a 50/50 split? Or am I just being hormonal? Please, tell me—how do you split chores fairly when one person is literally making another person? 😩 I need advice before I lose my mind! #MarriageStruggles #ChoreWars #PregnancyProblems #RelationshipAdvice #RomanticRelationships

Pregnant, Exhausted, and Still Doing It All—Is This Fair? 😤