I Finally Stopped Hogging Conversations!
Ever catch yourself talking about yourself... a LOT? 😅 I used to do it all the time, and honestly, it made my convos feel awkward and one-sided. But I found a way out—and it changed everything! 🙈
Here’s what helped me:
• I started counting how often I said “I,” “me,” or “my.” (Rubber band trick on my wrist—ouch, but it works!)
• I remind myself: It’s THEIR story, not mine. I let them finish before jumping in.
• When I do share, I keep it short and throw the question back: “I drive a hybrid. Have you ever thought about owning one?”
• I ask more questions and really listen—like, actually listen, not just wait for my turn!
• I give credit and compliments. It feels good to lift others up! ❤️
Now, my friendships are stronger and convos are way more fun. If I can do it, so can you!
#BetterConversations #ActiveListening #PersonalGrowth #Education