Grandparent life is tough ! My well meaning worry, and what I might say because of that usually does not solve problems. It causes hurt feelings, so I am going to start letting people live their own life without my advice because my advice is not always that great even for myself, we can’t save people from making mistakes they have to make their own mistakes live their own lives at the end of the day so I’m ready for just fun conversations and fun times together. I have been drained of anything else time for fun love and laughter and peace. for any feelings, I have hurt along the way I am very sorry. Just trying to look after those that I love, but I finally came to realization. Everybody has to live their own life. and you can’t save anyone no matter how hard you try while trying to save them you lose them