saw an older couple at the grocery store today he was pushing the cart and she was just holding onto his arm while they walked. at some point she said something and he started laughing so hard he had to stop and i just stood there watching them like an idiot honestly because how does that happen? like actually how? my friends can't keep a relationship for six months. people break up over a text message now. someone gets bored and just disappears and everyone acts like that's normal and then there's these two. probably been married longer than i've been alive. buying groceries together on a monday and laughing about something stupid i don't know what their secret is but whatever it is i don't think it's complicated. i think they just decided to stay. over and over again. even on the bad days what do you think it is? what actually keeps two people together that long?