it's a shame how some people will go through life. Never knowing what it's like to be in love. And of course there may be various reasons for it. Some it might be they're not physically very attractive. But in other cases they may have other issues. Myself I never had that sort of problem attracting someone. I did some self evaluation of myself which I think everyone should. Because after my ex wife and I split there was a lot of women interested in me. I'm sure some of it was because they thought that I was good looking. But I think part of it was they saw me as outgoing, and adventurous and funny and smart. As well as someone who worked. Even though I went through a rough patch economically. I still worked. Whereas I had a cousin who was a few months older than me. Who wasn't a bad looking good. And he worked. But he had no social skills when it came to women. I was dating a gal in Kentucky. And she was a cousin by marriage. He of course always seemed like he thought he was in competition with me. Once we went down there and she tried to fix him up with a friend of hers. But he acted like he was afraid of her. Later after I broke up with her. She went out with him once. I think out of pity as much as anything. But that was it. Whereas I had dated her for like at least 6 months. He died in his 40's. Probably still a virgin. Without ever getting married or having a family. Sadly he just never overcame his awkwardness.