My 12-Year-Old Stepson Hates Me & I'm Losing Hope 😔💔

Two years into blending our families, and I'm still struggling with my boyfriend's oldest son. While his 7-year-old cuddles with me and my 4-year-old adores both boys, the 12-year-old feels like a brick wall 😤 I bend over backwards - texting to include him in outings, buying treats, making his favorite meals. But he ignores my messages and acts like I'm invisible. His mom apparently trash-talks me constantly, which doesn't help 🙄 The worst part? I catch myself dreading when he comes over because the tension is suffocating. My boyfriend tries to support me, but even he seems more patient with my son than his own kids. Am I fighting a losing battle here? How do you love someone who clearly doesn't want your love? I'm exhausted from trying so hard with no progress 💔 Have you been through this blended family nightmare? I could really use some hope right now 🥺 #blendedfamily #stepmom #familystruggles #FamilyRelationships