Dating Someone with ADHD as a Single Mom - Am I Crazy? 😅

So here I am, a recently single mom trying to navigate the dating world again, and I've met this amazing guy who just happens to have ADHD. 💕 Don't get me wrong - his spontaneity and creativity are exactly what drew me to him in the first place! But honestly, I'm struggling with how to balance everything. One minute he's planning these incredible adventures for us, and the next he's completely forgetting we had plans altogether. 😔 My kids are starting to notice the inconsistency too, and I can see the confusion in their eyes. Last week, he promised to help with my daughter's science project, got super enthusiastic about it, then completely spaced and didn't show up. She was heartbroken, and I felt caught in the middle trying to explain without making excuses. I really care about him, but I'm wondering if I'm being naive thinking this could work with my family situation. Has anyone else been in a similar spot? How did you make it work? I could really use some real talk here. 💭 #SingleMomDating #ADHDRelationships #BlendedFamily #FamilyRelationships