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I Wasted 25 Years Married to a Man Who Never Said 'I Love You' 💔😢

I married my husband when I was 25 and he was 36 - he'd lived with his parents his whole life and only had one serious girlfriend before me. Looking back, maybe I should have seen the red flags, but I was young and naive. 😔 Our marriage was like living with a roommate who happened to share my last name. He never hugged me, never kissed me, never once told me he loved me in 25 years! 💔 He was obsessed with trains and buses, writing down numbers and taking endless photos. Any disruption to his routine would send him into a fit. He was socially awkward, even with me - we'd sit in complete silence during dinner dates. I finally realized I was living a lie and filed for divorce in 2020. Now I wonder - was he on the autism spectrum, or just emotionally cold? Either way, I feel like I wasted the best years of my life. 😢 Have any of you experienced something similar? I'd love to hear your stories. #DeadMarriage #AutismInMarriage #EmotionalNeglect #FamilyRelationships

2025-06-19
Nancy Pitman
I am not a medical professional but you describe traits of autism. Very sad that you both couldn’t have sought counseling and mutual understanding.
06-19
Sherrill, NY
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BLACK PRIDE
Yes you surely ignored all of his Red Flags because I'm sure he was that way before you married him....My Fiance' pick me up...hug and kiss me every time I enter his home and my home....So stop ignoring the Red Flags 🤔🤔
06-21
Indianapolis, IN
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Teresa Cole
that's. why I'm. wating. own. God. to. send. my. boazs. idone. already. pray. in. his. time. he. going. to. send. me. the. right. one. and. God going. to. do. this. aman. of. God. after. his. own. that. save. like. me. and fill. with. the. holy. ghost. and. love. God. like. I. do. ant. know. body. play.ing. games. I know. iant.
06-20
Albany, GA
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Michelle Rubin
Maybe because he never loved you did you ever think of that ijsaying, I know I don't say I love you unless I do so 25 years is on you.
06-21
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