Full-Time Surveillance? 😤🔍

Ever since I moved in with my boyfriend in Chicago, my life feels like a reality show where trust is the prize and I’m always losing. He wants our apartment to look like a model home, while I just want to crash after teaching all day. The worst part? He opens my mail and packages, pretending it’s for recycling—but let’s be real, it feels like snooping! He needs a play-by-play of my day, and if I leave out a single detail, he gets all moody and distant. Our arguments are endless, and intimacy is slipping away. He even packed away my farewell gifts from work without asking, so now I can’t even remember who gave me what. Is it normal to feel like your personal space is under attack? How do you even begin to rebuild trust and set boundaries when everything feels like a battle? Please tell me I’m not the only one losing my mind here! 😩🤯 Confide in me—what would you do? #relationshipstruggles #trustissues #livingtogether #RomanticRelationships