AmberAmbienceMy Uncle Betrayed Us—Should I Ever Forgive Him? 😡
After college, I moved back home, hoping for some peace. But my uncle (let’s call him D for Disaster) was already living with us, supposedly helping my dad with his business. Turns out, he was secretly running his own company behind our backs, stealing clients and competing with my dad! My parents even paid for his wedding and covered all his bills. The final straw? He hit my mom during a fight about his wife spreading lies. I was furious! I checked his phone and found out he was cheating on his pregnant wife, wasting money on other women, and not giving a dime to his own family. When we confronted him, he just laughed and said, “All men do this!” Are you serious?! Now he’s broke and wants to move back in. I’m torn between anger and confusion. What would you do if you were in my shoes? Help me out! 😤🤯 #FamilyDrama #FinancialConflict #ToxicRelatives #RomanticRelationships
2025-06-16
Phoenix Rising
Letting him back in is like telling a doctor to put the cancer back inside you!! After all he's done, let him deal with his consequences on his own!!
06-16
Nashua, NH
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Animal lover
Get a court order to throw him out plus get the proof off of his phone so y’all can sue him for more or less theft. Show his wife the proof about his mess with other women. That way she can then get alimony for adultery.
06-16
Ahoskie, NC
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Lisa
This is not even a question, NO! You can forgive its what God calls us to do but it doesnt mean you have to deal with the person. He has taken advantage enough and its for him to stand on his own.
06-16
York, PA
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pauline king
A shelter may be open for him to call home. Some things and some people including family members need to be deleted especially after hitting your Mother.
06-16
Bloomfield, CT
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Adrian Tremayne
Send him to your local social services office. They can help him find somewhere else to go. And don't let him stay "just until he gets somewhere else" because that will turn into him moving back in with you. Unless you give him a formal eviction notice, social services won't help him move because he's with relatives so he has a safe place to stay.
06-16
Rochester, NY
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Bridget Roberts
No, he cannot be trusted. To forgive someone does not mean to turn a blind eye to who they really are. Let him figure it out.
06-16
Tallahassee, FL
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Kellie'Ann
Ahhh hell NO. There would not be any moving back in. And that crap of “All Men do It” says a lot about who he is as a man. It’s men like your uncle that’s giving other (good) men a bad name. Tell him a very LOAD hell no to moving back in. He made that bed himself, so now he has to go and lay in it. Don’t go enabling him. If you do, it will not be a lesson learned for any of you.
06-16
Cedar Bluff, AL
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Marnita lataille
Tell him you forgive him but will never forget.Then tell him he made his bed now he can lay in it
06-16
Keizer, OR
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Cleo Tilde
Do not let him back. He needs to ask for forgiveness plus truly repente. & it appears that he has & will not repente. So keep him out. He cannot be trusted. To him all off you are a joke. Forgive him, but absolutely Do TRUST HIM.
06-16
Leander, TX
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CommentsJust to stay on watchlist
Forgive in your mind only and stay far away from his ignorance. Never forget.
06-16
Cloudcroft, NM
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