DistantDreamerI Stalked My Tinder Match. Now I’m Spiraling.
Okay, so I matched with this guy on Tinder and immediately turned into a full-blown FBI agent. Like, I’m talking cross-referencing his IG, LinkedIn, Spotify—basically, if he posted it, I saw it. I even found his dog’s name (Milo, if you’re wondering). And WHY? Because I’m terrified of sending a basic opener and getting ghosted like last time. So I’m sitting here at 2AM, overthinking every possible message: Do I mention his love for jazz? Should I make a pun about his job? Should I send a meme or is that too try-hard? Honestly, I’m exhausted. Dating apps are supposed to be fun, but it feels like a job interview where I’m the only one prepping. Is anyone else out here losing their mind trying to look chill while secretly spiraling? Someone please tell me I’m not the only one who treats a Tinder bio like it’s the freakin’ Da Vinci Code. #NoFilter #DatingAppDisaster #AdultingFail #NoFilter #DatingAppDisaster #AdultingFail #RomanticRelationships
2025-06-10
Mario Vega
If a man stalks it's a problem. If women do it, it just means she likes you. Double standards 😒
06-15
McAllen, TX
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djwyrm
what I understand. tinder is generally looked at by men who use it as a way to get laid or have a side piece for a bit and ghost. plenty of fish, pof, is geared more to people looking for a relationship. so try a different app would be my first suggestion. second. what your doing is alarming and very unhealthy stalking someone like this. set your phone aside and contact your friends and catch a movie or go shopping. get out of that wierd head space your in.
06-13
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