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My family is broken into pieces 🤡💔

Growing up in a family where trust was as rare as a sunny day in Seattle, I learned early how fragile relationships can be. My parents' 24-year age gap made things weird—my dad was mistaken for my grandpa, and he was too tired and bitter to ever be the goofy dad I needed. My mom’s side was my only refuge, but even that crumbled when my aunt cut us off over ancient drama, taking my cousin—my best friend—with her. Just when I thought I had a brother to lean on, he shattered everything with betrayal I can’t even say out loud without shaking. And then, my grandma, the only real rock I had, passed away. Now, I’m left with a handful of relatives, each relationship shadowed by suspicion, jealousy, and the constant fear of being hurt again. How do you rebuild trust when every bridge is burned? How do you stop yourself from snooping, doubting, or accusing when all you’ve known is betrayal? If you’ve been through this, how did you ever learn to trust again? Please, share your thoughts—I’m desperate for answers. 😅🤷‍♀️🙃 #FamilyTrust #BrokenBonds #SeekingAdvice #RomanticRelationships

2025-06-06
Carol White
Sometimes, walking away is the best option. If you are unable to do so, consider accepting these people for who and for what they are. Stay aware of their undesirable qualities and act accordingly: share no personal thoughts or information (they will use anything they can against you). Recognize the next “drama” is right around the corner and that you do not have to participate. Steel yourself. They will get angry when you refuse to get drawn into their game.
06-06
Driggs, ID
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Stuck in the 70's
You learn to take every good quality that someone inspired you with and you make your own life and you don’t look back just believe in yourself!
06-06
Sun City Center, FL
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tracy
Remember we only have so much time left on earth, make time for you & stop worrying about all details which you can hand over to God to deal with, you start taking care of you, think about you 🌼🌺✌️🌸
06-07
Costa Mesa, CA
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Christina S
At this point it’s just me and my little brother. When our grandma passed our dad and aunt (it was just them) basically quit talking. We never knew why. We didn’t have cousins from her or anything and we didn’t really know anyone else from our grandmas side so that was that. Then when our mom passed in 2019 we pretty much lost contact with that whole side. 3 aunts 2 uncles and so many cousins. We were kind of always the black sheep anyway, our mom was also. We weren’t the rednecks they wanted us to be, we were to open minded and metal 🤘. While it does sting a little, I think we’re better off without them. We have our happy little families and each other and that seems to be good enough for us 😊
06-06
Eureka, CA
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Lisa Kuehn
You are just going to have to cut them off if u ever want peace. You will never change them. Unfortunately, I've had to do this after my mother was killed. It took me until I was in my fifties to finally quit trying to get some kind of affection and not being hurt by cruel words. it has helped for the most part. Now I'm trying to deal with all the lifetime of trauma. Good luck and God bless🙏
06-07
West Monroe, LA
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Debee Hatfield
Only God can fix a broken family. you and them must be willing to do it. things got to change but you can all have a good life but changes have to be made and all you have to be willing to sit down and decide what needs to be changed who needs to do what.
06-07
York, PA
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Jill Lopate
You cannot change them. If any of them valued a relationship with you, they would show it. Do not invest anymore with any of them and find a group of nice honest appreciative friends who will be more kind.
06-08
Woodruff, SC
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Julie Morrison
Drama is just too much I'm my book. So are hateful, trouble causing liars! I stick to who i know is not that way! I hear so many women hate on their exes' spouse, not me. I love that beautiful lady & glad she is the kids mom too!
06-07
Manilla, IA
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