My Boyfriend’s Jealousy Is Driving Me Insane

Okay, it’s 2AM and I can’t sleep AGAIN because my boyfriend is basically acting like my parole officer. Like, is this normal? Every single day it’s: “Where were you at 1PM?” “Who were you texting?” “Why did you like that guy’s post?” Bro, I literally told you I was at work, and no, I’m not cheating on you with my coworker just because we both like Taylor Swift. He’s always laying down these rules—don’t talk to this guy, don’t go to that party, don’t wear that dress. I can’t even go to the grocery store without him wanting to tag along, and if I say I want to go alone, he acts like I just stabbed him in the heart. He’s gone through my phone, my wallet, even my DMs (which, hello, is NOT okay). And the worst part? He’s always comparing himself to my exes or random dudes on Instagram. Like, I’m tired. I want to be trusted, not interrogated. I get that jealousy happens, but this is next level. I just want my own life back. Am I crazy for thinking this is too much? If you’ve been here, please tell me how you survived. Because right now, I feel like I’m losing my mind. #NoFilter #RelationshipStruggles #AdultingFail #TrustIssues #NoFilter #RelationshipStruggles #AdultingFail #RomanticRelationships