Big time throwaway because, honestly, I’m freaking out and can’t tell anyone IRL. So, my husband and I? Not open. Not poly. Not even a little bit. We met on Tinder three years ago, did the whole whirlwind romance, and now we’re married. Supposedly happy. But last month, he went on a work trip, and I got weirdly lonely. I downloaded Tinder. Didn’t plan to cheat or anything, just… I don’t know. Nostalgia? Ego boost? Whatever. Swiped a bit, deleted it, felt dumb. He leaves again this week. I redownload Tinder (don’t judge me, I’m spiraling). Swiping, swiping… and then HIS FACE pops up. Like, my actual husband. I thought maybe it was a catfish, but nope—his profile is updated, it’s him. Even a pic I took of him. I swiped right. We matched. He’s home tomorrow. Do I confess? Does he confess? Are we both just lonely idiots? My brain is melting. TL;DR: Matched with my own husband on Tinder. Is this marriage limbo? #NoFilter #MarriageProblems #CaughtRedHanded #RomanticRelationships