Choosing Between Love and Early Retirement: Can I Have Both?

Lately, my career has felt like a treadmill I can’t get off, but the real dilemma isn’t just about work—it's about love and money. I’m a 32-year-old woman with a $1.4M net worth, mostly from grinding away at a job I’m ready to leave. My girlfriend, 34, is amazing but spends way more than I do and dreams of a $2M house. She’s got $1.5M to her name but still feels financially insecure, even though she works a job she hates. We talk about our future a lot, but our money philosophies never seem to line up. I want to step back, maybe even take a break from work, but she’s not thrilled with that idea. Neither of us wants kids, but we can’t seem to agree on how to balance our careers, spending, and dreams. Has anyone else been stuck between their career goals and their relationship? I’d love to hear how you navigated this mess. 😅 #CareerDilemma #RelationshipStruggles #FinancialIndependence #JobCareer