Family Drama: Should I Visit My Abusive Grandma? 🤡🏆

My family has always been a mess. My grandma spent decades making everyone miserable—she fired my dad right before Christmas, spent all the grandkids’ college funds, and never once apologized for her cruelty. Now she’s in a run-down nursing home, and my mom (who also suffered under her) is pressuring me to visit with my toddler, even though I’m in my third trimester and barely keeping it together. I feel guilty seeing her end up like this, but I can’t forget the pain she caused. My therapist says to prioritize my health and family, but I still feel like the bad guy. Why is it so hard to trust my own feelings when my family keeps crossing boundaries? What would you do if you were in my shoes? Help me make sense of this mess! 😤🤯🙃 #FamilyDrama #ToxicRelationships #SettingBoundaries #RomanticRelationships