Is it necessary to share finances after marriage?😤💸

My husband and I have been together for eight years, married for two. Ever since he quit his job to chase his entrepreneurial dreams, I’ve become the breadwinner, covering 90% of our expenses. We used to split everything 50/50, but now we have joint accounts and he’s taken over managing our finances. Lately, he’s turned into a budget detective, tracking every dollar I spend—even questioning if my lunch was a legit charge! I’ve cut back on personal treats, but apparently, a coffee is now a crime. All I want is a little financial independence—just one credit card he doesn’t monitor like a hawk. Is that so unreasonable? He claims he’s just trying to understand our spending, but I feel like I’m being parented, not partnered. Am I wrong for wanting some privacy? Should I just let him have total control? Or is it fair to ask for a little space? Please, tell me I’m not losing my mind here! 😩☕️💳 #MarriageMoneyMatters #FinancialIndependence #RelationshipStruggles #RomanticRelationships