My wife has unilaterally decided that we should have a baby. 😳🤯

Last night, while my wife was out with her parents, I stumbled upon a pregnancy test in our grocery delivery. My heart dropped. We’d always agreed to wait for kids until we had a house and I finished school. Turns out, she stopped taking her birth control a month ago—without telling me—because she thought we were ready. Her reason? She wanted to surprise me. I felt betrayed, angry, and honestly, lost. We’d talked about this so many times, and now I’m questioning everything. How do you rebuild trust after something like this? Is it normal to feel so blindsided by someone you love? I’m just trying to make sense of it all, and I can’t help but wonder—am I overreacting, or is this a real breach of trust? Would you forgive, or is this crossing the line? Help me out, friend. I need to vent. 😤🤦‍♂️🥴 #TrustIssues #MarriageStruggles #RelationshipTalk #RomanticRelationships