My wife is someone who will go on unlimited credit to get the things she loves😅

Last night in our cramped kitchen, my wife dropped her latest wish list: a new kitchen, a garden shed, a new car, solar panels, and another vacation—on top of the one we already booked! All at once. I’ve got £18k in savings, she’s got £4k, but her solution? "I’ll just put it on credit if you won’t help." The last time she did that, I had to bail her out after she spiraled into panic attacks. Now, she’s about to repeat the cycle. When I said no to a second holiday, she snapped and booked a solo trip to Italy for £1,200. I’m exhausted from being the responsible one while she spends like we’ve won the lottery. How do I get through to her before we drown in debt—again? Any advice, or am I just doomed to play the villain? 😩🤦‍♂️ #MarriageMoneyMatters #FinancialStress #RelationshipConflict #DebtDrama #RomanticRelationships