So here’s the deal: I moved in with my boyfriend three weeks ago, and now I’m starting to feel like I’m living in a financial circus. He owns the house (with a mortgage), has two barely-functioning cars, and is talking about taking out another car loan. Meanwhile, I’m paying more than half the mortgage and half the utilities, and I make way more than him. I get it—love isn’t about money, but I can’t help but feel like I’m watching a slow-motion train wreck! 😩 He’s been burned before by an ex who tanked his credit, and I don’t want to come off as controlling. But seriously, how do I tell him this is a terrible idea without sounding like a jerk? I want to help, but I also don’t want to end up his financial safety net if things go south. How would you handle this mess? Help me out before I lose my mind! 😵💫 #FinancialConflicts #RelationshipStruggles #MoneyMatters #RomanticRelationships