Is Social Media Ruining My Relationship Pace?

Anyone else feel like social media is gaslighting them about what a 'normal' relationship timeline looks like? I’m 23, dating someone I’ve known for ages. We’re both neurodivergent (ADHD + autism), so our vibe is pretty unique. He’s patient, sweet, and honestly, treats me like royalty. But we’ve been dating for 4 months and he still hasn’t slapped an official label on us. Everywhere online says, “If he’s serious, he’ll commit in 3 months!” My ex did, so now I’m spiraling, thinking maybe this means my current guy isn’t that into me. But he’s consistent, communicates well, and even told me he loves me first. He says his parents dated for 5 years before getting engaged, so maybe I’m just overthinking? Is it just me, or is social media making us all neurotic about relationship milestones? Anyone else struggling to tune out the noise and just enjoy what they have? #datingstruggles #relationshipanxiety #neurodivergentlove #RomanticRelationships