I earned all the money, so do I not even have the right to spend it?😱

Last night in our kitchen, my wife exploded when she found out I paid off our son's martial arts classes—$1,800 on my credit card—without telling her. This isn't the first time I've made a big purchase without her knowledge, but it feels like the world is ending. She called me a liar, said she can't trust me with money, and even accused me of being capable of cheating! Here's the kicker: I make all the money, she hasn't worked since 2020, and she gets whatever cash she needs from me. Yet, she still feels betrayed and wants revenge. I'm angry, confused, and honestly, I don't even know if I'm in the wrong anymore. Is financial independence in marriage just a myth? How do I fix this mess and get her to trust me again? Or am I doomed to be the villain forever? 😩💸 What would you do if you were in my shoes? #MarriageProblems #FinancialTrust #RelationshipDrama #RomanticRelationships