So hereās my dilemma: My mom (60F) insists on buying a house with me (33M) and my wife (30F), but she flat-out refuses to get a jobāeven though sheās more qualified than both of us! Weāre in a pricey city, hustling to save for a down payment, and sheās just dog-sitting for pocket change. Meanwhile, sheās blowing up my phone every day, saying sheāll be homeless if we donāt let her in on our plans. My wife is 100% against it, wanting our own space and future. Iām torn between guilt and frustrationāshould I risk my marriage for someone who wonāt help themselves? Or am I being too harsh? Seriously, what would you do if your own mom guilt-tripped you like this? š©š”š„ #FamilyFinance #HomeBuyingDrama #ToughChoices #MotherSonConflict #RomanticRelationships