After 12 years of marriage, I thought we were finally healing. Therapy helped me climb out of depression and communicate better, and for a while, things felt hopeful. But one night at a friend’s house in snowy Colorado, my husband got aggressively drunk and humiliated me in front of everyone—just because I didn’t want to join the hot tub. He called me names, accused me of ruining the night, and wouldn’t let it go. The next day, he barely remembered and gave me a half-hearted apology. Since then, I can’t shake the feeling that I’m not his priority, that all my hard work was for nothing. I’m angry, confused, and honestly, just exhausted. Is trust even possible after this? Or am I just fooling myself? Please, tell me—what would you do if you were in my shoes? 😤🥲🙃 #MarriageStruggles #TrustIssues #EmotionalAbuse #RelationshipAdvice #RomanticRelationships