We're not married yet, but my boyfriend seems to be controlling our family's money

My boyfriend (49m) and I (31f) have been together for a while, but lately, things have gotten weird. He convinced me to stop talking to my mom, saying it was for our relationship. But now, I’m starting to see the real reason: he wants total control over our finances. He questions every dollar I spend, wants to manage all our accounts, and even accused me of hiding money! Meanwhile, he makes big purchases without telling me. I feel like I’m losing my independence and my family at the same time. Is this normal? How do I get my financial freedom back without blowing up our relationship? Please, I need some real advice before I lose my mind! 😤💸🤯 #RelationshipProblems #FinancialControl #TrustIssues #MoneyMatters #RomanticRelationships