My Boyfriend's Drinking Is Ruining Our Trust (and My Carpet) 🤦‍♀️🍻

Living with my boyfriend in my cozy Chicago apartment was supposed to be a dream, but lately, it's been a nightmare. He's an amazing guy—kind, funny, and a great listener. But every few weeks, he drinks himself into oblivion, and suddenly my floors, laundry basket, and even my filing cabinet become his bathroom. I can't tell you how many times I've woken up in the middle of the night to chaos, anger, and the smell of disaster. We've had countless talks about trust, boundaries, and respect. He promises to stop, but then the cycle repeats. Last night, he shattered my mirror during a drunken workout. This morning, he texted another apology, but I just feel numb. Am I wrong for wanting more? Is it possible to rebuild trust after so many broken promises? Or am I just fooling myself? Honestly, I need your advice—how do you fix trust when it feels like it's already shattered? 😩🧹🍺🤷‍♀️ #RelationshipStruggles #TrustIssues #AlcoholProblems #Boundaries #AdviceNeeded #RomanticRelationships