When Dad Feels Invisible: Navigating Subtle Sexism in Parenting Spaces

Ever notice how, as a dad, you sometimes get treated like an outsider in parenting spaces? I’ve lost count of the times doctors, nurses, or daycare staff have directed all the important questions to my wife—even when I’m the one holding our child or answering their questions. It’s a quiet kind of sexism that can make you feel invisible, like your role as a parent is somehow less valid. I’ve even had other moms at the playground assume I’m just babysitting, not actually parenting. It stings, but I try to show up, stay involved, and prove by example that dads are just as much parents as moms. Have you ever felt sidelined as a dad? Share your stories below—I’d love to hear how you handle it! #DadLife #ParentingJourney #Fatherhood #BreakingStereotypes #FamilyEquality #Parenting