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Is Sexting Cheating? My Husband’s “Innocent” Secret 🤡💔

Three years of marriage, a new baby, and therapy for my PPD—my husband was my rock. Or so I thought. Lately, I sensed he was hiding something. My gut twisted every time he picked up his phone. One day, I checked his Google Photos (he left his account open on my laptop) and found screenshots of him sexting his so-called “long-term friend.” The same friend he told me not to worry about. He swears it’s just a weird, ongoing thing—never physical, just roleplay, just to distract himself from our rough patch. His friend apologized too, calling it “innocent.” But I’m furious, hurt, and lost. Is this cheating? Am I overreacting? Should I bring this up in counseling, or is this the end? Honestly, I feel betrayed and confused. If you were in my shoes, what would you do? I need real advice, not just empty apologies. 😤🤯🤡 #MarriageStruggles #TrustIssues #Infidelity #RelationshipAdvice #RomanticRelationships

2025-05-16
Caleb O'Brien
yes it's cheating when you're married your intimate moments and desires are to be shared with your partner only. he should be talking to and acting out those desires with you
05-17
Hope, ME
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Amanda Amweg
yea it's cheating I caught my husband of twenty two years doing it with multiple women one was a 17 year old he was telling them that he was separated when we wernt I am still dealing with the broken heart he caused
05-16
Van Wert, OH
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Shirley
If you feel betrayed divorce his ass & move on. Man cheated because that's what's they do.Some of you woman know your man cheat you stay with him for his paycheck.Woman need to start take care of themselves and leave them cheating husband!!!
05-16
Shelbyville, KY
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Jack
For most relationships, yes, it likely is cheating, especially if it's done secretly. For some, it would be in the realm of tolerance, but not too many.
05-16
Chicago, IL
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always right
I'll end both if it's discovered I told wifey in the beginning of you ever feel the need to cheat leave because it's easier than me hiding two bodies. and she knows I'm not lying leave before that happens because it's just not right
05-18
Le Roy, MI
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Gina
yes it is cheating when texting other women sex texting can cause problems in relationship. it obviously he don't value your marriage and your feelings. Obviously he have no respect.
05-18
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Jason
Yes, it is and it ruined my marriage. I’m trying to win my wife back
05-16
Polson, MT
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Gary Gibson
any attention to the opposite sex is cheating, your loyalty should always be to your partner, if not stay single!
05-17
Cameron, OK
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Dianne
It's cheating to me. If you are thinking about sex with another person other than who you are with. it's time to go bye bye
05-16
Greenfield, MA
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Guiseppe Donati
Listen when men cheat it’s for sex and sex only…when women cheat they have an emotional connection. There’s a huge difference. Not saying either is right
05-17
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